ok so i have a couple of problems. (these are more rants than questions.)
1. a lot of times whenever something bad happens around my house, its always because of me I feel like and I think my mom and dad think that I am always the one who is causing the problem. I am always getting in trouble and I am just so sick of being the one who gets the punishment. I really try and I just don't know why it's always me.
2. my parents never seem to really get me. they don't ever trust me. and yes I mess up sometimes but who doesn't. but they dont ever believe me and they always assume the worst. they are ALWAYS snoopingthrough my phone and going through any of my private stuff. try are supportive and loving and I know they are just caring but they can't see that I am not an awful person. it hurts me when they assume I have done something bad.
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hunny I hear u and I am sorry for all the pain u feel and wish I could take it away. life is hard when u are young and are trying to figure urself out. we make mistake like u said everyone does but by learning from r mistakes takes time, it also takes people time to forgive us and trust us again for those mistakes. be patient believe me the more mad r upset u get at ur parents for not trusting u the long it is going to take them to trust u. a lot of times parents think u have something to hide when u act like that. try this, for 3 months I want u not pushing the issue of them not trusting u. if they want to go threw ur phone let them don't act like it bothers u at the end of the 3 months sit down with ur parents and tell them that it hurts ur feelings that they feel like they can't trust u and see what they say. if they get angry calmy say I understand that I lost ur trust and I am working hard to get it back...... in the meanwhile u can always vent to me.
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heres wat you do, start staying out of their way every now and then, the nmaybe a week after you start doing that, do a ton of stuff nice, plan it in the week before. If it works they'll see what a great person you are
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oh yeah if you want to talk about your problems just pm me, i dont mind spending my time helping you
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I know the feeling, I hate it when my parents do that, my mom had her friend living with us one time, and her friend told me that it was all my fault, I didn't to anything! I was just sitting in my room. Then I started crying. Don't worry you'll get through it. Just talk to them. that's what I did. Good luck sweetie!
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