Hi I am fourteen years old and my father has kidney stones. Recently he did surgery and the doctors had a tube inserted  inside his penis,the urine has been clearing up but if he lifts something heavy it gets back red. I would like to know out of a dozen persons with this infection how many of them will die.

He's always in a lot of pain,he has problems breathing sometimes, chest pains,always cold and he gets fever. He's feeling cold inside and warm outside and doesn't have an appetite.

I am very young and I wouldn't like the feeling of loosing a father.How can I help to help him get better he never has any appetite so the medication won't have anything to bounce on and they keep giving him salt,coco cola,whole wheat and other foods he was ordered by the doctor not to eat.I am very concerned about him and would only like to help him even though tlhe doesn't want my help.how do I make him feel comfortable with this infection.

He has just been rushed to the hospital for the third time and I don't know what's going to happen.I just need some comfort from a person who knows how he feels and how to resolve this situation.