So here it is, my girlfriend constantly watches lesbian porn, not that I care if she does, but now it's to the point where I don't feel desired in the relationship. She never comes on to me or engages. I'm always the one. She doesn't orgasm during intercourse and she only does while going down on her. She said she has been with a woman once and said she didn't enjoy it. She says lesbian strapon porn is a fantasy in her mind. Should I suggest to her to act upon it and see how it goes or should I keep my mouth shut and just go with what she says.
Many women do not orgasm from penetration and need cliteral stimulation to orgasm. The fact that she orgasms when you go "down on her" suggests that you need to stimulate her clit during sex and maybe have plenty of foreplay beforehand.
Lesbianism seems just to be a fantasy, so let it be.