I have been with this girl for 6 months now and I'm deeply in love with her, we are both 26 and we already talking and marriage and this kind of things.
the thing is I know her 4 ex boy freinds and we all live in the same city. I know she doesn't talk to them or anything but just thinking about it kills me, when I get mad about it I don't tell her anything cause I know I'm not allowed to, befor we got together I knew her past and I chose to date her so it's my responsibility, the only thing is need to know that I can surpass this, I can't talk bout this to anyone I don't wanna make my gf look bad, I'm my self had a past with girls sleeping around, so I'm not allowed to judge her or anything, but I just need to convince my self that I can stop thinking bout her ex boyfriends and when I meet them in the street I don't get mad or feel weird, just saying I never feel insecure bout my self, all i need to know is that I can live with her without thinking bout her past and that we can have a future together.
she actually loves me and she dies things to me that no one has ever done before, I love her so bad so please help feel better bout this.
Hi Guest,
From your post it appears you do have some trust issues. Let it go.
You all live in the same city. She is going to run into her ex's at some point just as you will run into yours. If you trust her, and you'd better, then recognize that it's in her past and it's over between them.
If you can't get past that then forget about marriage. Without trust there is nothing.
Why do you keep thinking about it? You say you aren't insecure so what is the issue?
Before progressing further on the marriage idea YOU might want to spend some time with a counselor to work through this.
Good luck.