I asked a girl out that i had been chattin to, the day after she turned 15... i was 2 months away from becoming 16... it started off as just a normal teenage couple, then after a month her parents decided tht we couldn't be together anymore. but after a discussion we decided tht we would stay together in secret until they appreciated me more, we tried every angle to get them to like me but it got worse as they were stopping her from meetin up with me. This went on over the course of 7 months then we got caught out and had to break up, by this time we were really into each other. After a week we got back together except due to her parents behavior we split up several times but only for a few days till things cooled off. we have both been through hard times but really trust each other with anything as we are also like best friends. after our several splits we decided that it was obvious we really wanted to be together. her parents behavior just got worse and worse as they were confiscating her phone and stopping her going out more, but neither of us would give in. We kept the relationship secret for 18 months.... she is now 6 months from turning 17 and im 8 months from turning 18... they finally found out we are together... and they have completely put the kibosh on us... her dad is threatening to come after me if we meet each other or even tlk as A COUPLE OR FRIENDS. this means that we have to not see each other at all now. we have stuck together through thick and thin and now its got hard, we still really wanna be together but her parents have taken her phone and band her from the internet permanently. wats the best way of getting around this... would it be to finally confront the parents and let them know tht i am a nice guy as they really dont no me at all. HELP PLEASE
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Hi, I really feel for you because my mom pulled this same thing on me when she found out I had a bf... It is very hard and stressful. You say they took away her phone and don't let her out? Hm... That makes it a little tricky... What I would do, is call her parents (Yes, scary, I know...) And talk to them. Adult to adult. Find out why it is exactly that they seem to have a problem with their daughter having a bf or why they seem to have a problem with you. Because I can gaurentee that if they find out that you're 18, they are going to start throwing statutory rape at you. And believe me that is NOT fun.
Talk to them, and try to explain to them what they are putting their daughter through. How it makes her feel that her parents aren't being understanding. Worse come to worse, use the internet, assuming she can still get on it. If not at home, then maybe school?
Let me know how it goes, because I know what it's like and I want to help...
Talk to them, and try to explain to them what they are putting their daughter through. How it makes her feel that her parents aren't being understanding. Worse come to worse, use the internet, assuming she can still get on it. If not at home, then maybe school?
Let me know how it goes, because I know what it's like and I want to help...
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