PLZ I NEED AN ANSWER . I HAD MY FIRST INTERCORSE FROM A YEAR AND I NEVER BLEED"PLEASE NOTED THAT IT'S MY FIRST INTERCORSE NOT MY FIRST HAVING SEX"THEN AFTER FIRST TIME I SAID MAYBE IT WILL BREAK THE NEXT TME BUT NOTHING THEN I WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND HE SAID THAT THI'S A BIT CUT BUT IT'S NOT BROKEN.THEN I HAD A TIME THAT IT WAS ROUGH BUT DIDNT BLEED ALSO,IT WAS JUST A LITTLE BLOOD LIKE A SMALL CUT IN MY FINGER BUT THERE WAS NO PAIN AND EVEN THE FIRST TIME THERE WAS NO PAIN .IS IT NORMAL PLEAE ADVISE ME!!!!
Dear ladywhatever: Every hymen is different, since you have had sex a couple of time already. I doubt your hymen will break or hurt now. Depending on the size of your partner's penis etc. it probably just slightly stretched it, etc. You can even have a piece of hymen remaining for a LONG time. So don't worry about it. It is "NORMAL" for you. Good Luck and Health
but i had sex several times it's not 2 or 3 .and i had before that entercorse with 3 years sex but there was no entercorse just from the out.so iam still little worry
Dear Ladywhatever: I'm a little confused as why you would worry about your hymen bleeding or not! You have obviously broken your hymen, but there is a little bit left - according to your doctor. Can you elaborate on why having no pain or bleeding from your hymen upsets you? then I can help you somemore!
well,iam from arab contery.i dont care if my hymen broke or not. but the thing is that my family would kill me if they know something like that. and i want to make an operaation to get it back again but i want to find another way instead doing an operation.second, what's makin m upset; is that i wanted to feel normal in something like that.that's why i asked is that normal not to bleed or even feel any pain!!!.thanks bambi :-)
NOW I get it!!!! :) Yes it is TOTALLY normal for it not to hurt or bleed! Infact in the middleages and well into the 19th century when a man or in particular a King would take a wife, he would do his "thing" THEN bring out the sheet to show everyone the blood stain!!!!!!!! So everyone knew that his bride was truly a virgin and a baby would be coming soon!!! The UNFORTUNATE thing is some women - like yourself - didn't bleed! So they were beheaded!!!!!!! What has made me laugh about that is that it was probably from the "king" being too small to cause the hymen to break in the 1st place. Some women can actually keep their hymen intact, because their partners have a smaller circumfrence. You can get a HYMENOPLASTY when the time comes. This type of surgery is becoming more and more popular. ESPECIALLY for women like yourself. The one thing I HAVE to mention is this. I TOTALLY understand about your family/culture needing to know that you are "still a virgin" WHAT you really have to be careful about is not getting pregnant! And NOT getting an STD! Because lets face facts, I think your family would have a FAR greater problem if you had either of those, then you breaking your hymen!!!! There is only 1 way of being 100% sure of not getting pregnant, and that is NOT having sex. The Condom is 90% effective, so that means that 10 out of a 100 times the condom fails. Same with the pill, 1 or 2 women our of 100 will have their contraception fail. So for your health NOW and in the FUTURE! Please be careful. And whatever happens to YOU is YOUR NORMAL!!! We are all different, even "down there!" Good luck and good health!
Lady Whatever: Don't be worried about having your Hymen break. It is perfectly normal if you haven't bled yet. I didn't actually bleed until my second sex partner, and I had already been having sex alot with the first. In fact, some woman don't even bleed ever after having sex their first time.
well,bambi u made me cheer and laugh,and yes iam already using condom with him , but not all the time.and i use something called malva to wash my vagina after having sex.and unfortunatly i have polycystic ovary.so that's realy help 8-| i wont get pregnant
Hi ladywhatever. ALWAYS use a condom!!!! And I don't know if I understood your comment about "I have a plycystic ovary, so that's really help I wont get pregnant" If you mean that BECAUSE you have a plycistic ovary you can't get pregnant, then you are wrong! All you need is part of 1 ovary to get pregnant! Sperm's only job in it's little life is to find just 1 fertile egg!!! And they will do ANYTHING to get at it. If you mean you wont get pregnant because of the condom! Wrong again. the condom alone is about 90% affective - when done right. So that means it fails 10 times out of a hundred!!!!!!!! And douching after sex, does not stop pregnancy either! That actually is an old wives tale! When intercourse is happening, when the man ejaculates, the sperm shoot out and try to get through the cervix as fast as possible!! So say you douche right after ejaculation, that doesn't mean that you have washed away the sperm that have made it through the cervix!!!!!! So PLEASE be careful OK! If need be go on the birth control patch, it is easily hidden, under your underpants. AND ALWAYS ALWAYS make your partner wear a condom!! NO EXCEPTIONS!!! OK?