I'm 12 going on 13 soon, I'm a virgin but my labia are so long and I'm afraid that when I'm older I'll be afraid to let guys down there. I dont like the way it looks in a bathing suit but I have learned to just accept it. Its ugly and looks abnormal. I've never seen or noticed this on anyone else before and that makes me even more afraid for when I'm older to let any guy down there. I never noticed that I had long labia until a few weeks before I started my period but I think its weird and I hate it!
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I also, recently had a boyfriend... he was 16 and he would try to finger me but I never let him because I was scared...
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A very large labia minora is very common and for sure can cause dis-comfort and embarressment. In time you will learn to live with it, perhaps by wearing appropriate clothing.
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One thing I can tell you is that many males find a large labia most inviting, just like females drooloing over a huge penis.
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Hi, I was listening to a surgeon discuss this on the radio the other day. She was saying she has lots of women request surgery on their labia, but it is never the husbands or boyfriends suggesting surgery. It was the girls feeling insecure. Men and boys don't care that much. they are just happy to be having sex. bodies come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, including our genitalia. We are all happier if we can embrace our differences. Don't compare yourself to others. You are you and perfect as you are. If someone loves you.they won't Cate about the size of your labia. Also, this seems to be a recent obsession. None of my friends cared about the size of their labia when I was in my teens. We had nothing to compare to. We just accepted what we had and never questioned it. I hope that helps.
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