hi guys .. had to come back and say what helped me.
had itcy privates for months.. like 6 months.. tried the thrush tabs.. and cream twice... cold cloths between my legs to sleep as night was worse. tried the vinegar bathing.. changed the washing powder.. toilet paper.. shampoo...fabric soft.. the list went on and on ..didnt want to get into a relationship.. as omg .. sex out the question.. went surfing the net nothing helped ... the only thing i didnt think of is ... JOCK RASH... yep..got jock rash cream... talc after every shower and guess what .. it worked ..for 3 months now havent gone crazy at night... not saying its the answer for all .. but hey .. worked for me.. worth at try