So the 1st day my boyfriend fingered me I enjoyed it a lot, I was in pain though. I had to pee and when I did it stinged so much! No joke. I went to ask my friend if she knew what was happening because she's lost her virginaity, she said it'd be fine it's just trying to get used to it & it's just stretching. I was still freaked out because me and my boyfriend did it again and it stinged more & he hardly got inside of me. It's not a infection, I know that for sure because it'd sting when I pee but then it'd feel okay in a hour or so. I have no clue what's happening to my body and I don't want my mother knowing... She'll get real mad at me, she sees me as a smart woman with a bright future so I'd rather not ruin that.. Please help me!