hey i wanted to dsicuss something with u and i hope u provide me with right infos and things to make it right.when i masterbate i ejaculate fast and i want to find a way to make it cum longer. cause girls wont like this.and another question during sex do i ejaculate faster or its longer?2)is there a way when i have sex to ejaculate longer? ( i heard eating banana and drinking milk will make u cum longer)3)whats the average time of having sex?4)during BJ do the guy Cum on the girls mouth , when she suck so much . cause i feel BJ is intense and makes u cum faster?5)how many times do a guy cum during sex.i have other questions but i need the replies of those first. plz guys im serious about this questions i need ansers to people who know how to deal with it.
OK Archie, here's my attempt:
1 - Cum longer? Don't know if it works the same way for men as women but one thing that you can try is when you pee, practice holding it in as long as you can. This may work for sex as well, when you feel you are about to come, focus on something else and keep going. Oral sex for a women is fun for a man to do, you get to suck on and in her p***y which feels nice and you may get her to come if done the right way; clit, vagina, and fingers.
2 - Ejaculate longer? Don't know. Do you practice any of this for yourself to see if you can while masturbating? Never heard of the bananas and milk theory, interesting though.
3 - Average time of sex? It all varies. I myself, sometimes I like fast, rough sex and other times I like to make love to. So it all can vary from women to women. Talk to the woman and see what she likes, ask her what she likes and what she would like you to do for her, the more you do for her the more likely that you will get in return.
4 - Cum in girls mouth after BJ? Definitely but that's me, I swallow my husband's come but not all the time. You will have to ask her or she will just spit it out or when you come and she doesn't like it will release her mouth from your penis.
5 - How many times a guy comes during sex? The more you come during sex the better because then it is lasting longer. Some guys can only come once and then they are done for a period of time before they can get back up again. But, if the woman is not done again, give her oral pleasure.
Hope this helps you Archie.
1 - Cum longer? Learn control. When you masturbate try to stop just before you orgasm. Focus on the feelings "down there" as you near orgasm. Keep doing this as often as you can. Masturbation should not be just about ejaculation, it should be a learning experience.
2 - Faster or longer? Not exactly sure of what you mean. Most guys will, at least when starting out having sex, ejaculate quickly. It's part of the excitement and also it feels a lot different.
3 - Ask her what she likes, it's the best answer.
4 - Ask her what she likes.
5 - After you ejaculate once your body needs time to recover, it's called a refractory period. The younger you are the sooner you can go at it again. Use that time to focus on her.
Basically Archie, communications is the key. Ask her what she likes, tell her what you like. Don't be afraid of saying "slow down" or "stop." Don't expect it to be like you see on TV or in porn. Sex is often "clumsy" until you really know each other. Don't use porn as a reference. There is a BIG difference between making love and having sex. Focus on HER, not you. Just let your body go along for the ride. If you ejaculate early, clean up and focus on her.
Always use protection as well. It can take a LOT of anxiety out of having sex and also, may reduce the sensitivity of your penis to help you last a bit longer.
Good luck.
thnx alot ^^
another question came in mind..
when a guy wear condom and he cummed during sex. if he wanted to go on should he change the condom or he can continue with the same one?
about the ansers in regards to
1) what will that help me with?
2)i ment i heard that people during sex they cum longer than they masterbate(so masterbation is faster) ? is it true?
about 3) what if i cant control the excitement ? i might cum really fast or cum longer...
Never reuse a condom Archie. Even if you put it on backwards, replace it.
1. Learning control will help you last longer. That will help ensure your partner is satisfied and also will give you a better orgasm. The longer the buildup - the more pleasure you'll experience, and the more you'll ejaculate.
2. Some people can last longer masturbating than having sex, others last longer during sex. It is very common to not last very long when you first start having sex and then as you get more experienced to be able to last longer.
3. Again, it's control. You need to be aware of what you're feeling. You can learn how to control yourself. Even if you do ejaculate quickly just go back to your partner. You'll be ready to go again shortly.
You will want to change after ejaculation.
One reason for this is because you have someone other than yourself to please, so ejaculating later and having sex for longer is desirable. How to work on this would be, when you need or have the urge to pee, pee a little out and then hold your stream again for as long as possible ALSO try this method while ejaculating or cumming, try to stop yourself before this is going to happen and see how long you can hold off with this method. Ladies like all sex, long and short times.