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I'm fourteen and I really like this guy who I play tennis with. We're born only three days apart, and he's the sweetest guy like ever. Well maybe not ever but pretty high up there!:) so I met him in maybe late February. I first saw him and I was like he's pretty cute:) so then I asked my friend what his name was and she was like, "THAT'S MAX he's SOOO HOT RIGHT?! I BET HE HAS ABS." and yeah she really does talk like that... But we became friends and we talk quite a lot at practice. There was this one time when we were doing a relay race and I slipped after I won. Everyone else was turned around and they didn't see me but then he turned his head and saw me, and he gave me his hand to help me up. There was this time also when everyone was laughing really hard (including me) and I bumped into his arm with me butt...(awkward) but we just laughed and he didn't wipe it off his arm like a jerk. But being the weirdo I am (haha!:) I like wiped off his arm...and there was another time when I was walking back and he was moving forward and I accidentally brushed my butt against his finger and I just kept walking to make sure I didn't look like I did it on purpose. I just didn't want him to know I felt it. It wouldve been awkward for a double accident touch....and he's not a "player" I know for sure. It was a mistake. There was also this one day when max and I were on the same team for relay racing and he was like "Maya will go anchor" and I'm the fastest girl at practice, but he was on the team and he was faster than me by a bit, so I said, "Me? Why don't you go anchor?, you're faster than me:)" and he was like, "You beat me last time!" and I said, "no, I didn't. I have never ever beaten you." and then he smiled with his teeth, and looked down into my eyes and I was like, "HOLY OH MY JESUS." and then he said, "Well you beat me to the net post:)" and I just didn't argue anymore. So I just smiled. Then he said, "Okay guys, Maya's going first" and so I ran and Then the next people went, but it was maddy's turn and max was like, "Maddy, you better not drop the ball. I swear I will..." and he was kidding, he wasn't being mean, and I totally adore Maddy she's so amazing!:) but then I said, "Don't pressure her!:)" and then it was almost his turn and he said to me, "Haha, watch me drop it..." like telling Maddy not to drop with was a jinx. But then I laughed. Later on, I challenged him, and we were both hitting horrible shots and he served me a ball and it just hit my racket and went over the fence an hit this car. Keep in mind, that this is the Beverly Hills Tennis Center. So I covered my mouth and gasped and he was laughing and he was like, "Hey maya, you got new strings?" And I said, "No, I just kinda left my racket at home so I'm using my sister's. So I guess she got new strings:)" and he started laughing and I didn't really think it was funny but I just smiled because he was smiling and that made me happy. Then he was kinda playing badly and Like shanking balls all over the court I guess. They weren't huge mistakes to me. But he was mad at himself. So I won. Then later he challenged me back, and I was coming down the stairs and he was waiting for me on the court and he was like, "MAYAAAA. Come on let's go" and then I said, "I'm coming! We have a whole other hour!:)" and then he said, "But I want to play!" and when I finally got to the court, I closed the for and I just looked at him, like that "I'm here now, happy?" face and he started laughing, and he smiled again, and then he won. And when we were back on court with everyone else, I did this total fangirling move and he was like, "This was Maya just a second ago:" then he like imitated me, and i was like, "That was a horrible imitation." and he was like, "That was an amazing imitation." and now that I'm thinking about it, I wasn't in the middle of a circle of people, he was TOTALLY looking at me! Or maybe not I hope so. My friends were like, "he totally likes you" but I don't want to get my hopes up and implant it into my brain that he likes me. I just really want him to. But anyways, many other days of utter happiness occured and yeah you get the picture. I like him a BUNCH. But I said all of this to say, should I tell him I like him? Should I wait? I REALLY don't want to ruin our friendship, because this is the first time I've actually talked this much to a guy I like, and the most I've eer had like moments with the guy I like. However, I also don't want I be friendzoned. Please help.
You sound like a typical 14 year old lol not trying to put you down or anything.
but dont stress this. I actually started dating my husband when i was 14. (not saying you will or you wont)
i think you should let him know that you like him. be honest with him and tell him like it is. that you obviously have a crush on him and that if he isnt intrested(i think he is) that you still want to be his friend because yall get along so well.
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Did you tell your husband that?:) haha! And yeah. I know. I said it'll sound juvenile...but I'm fourteen. So I guess it's okay:)
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I'm a guy and if I were him and didn't like u I would continue hanging out, hope I helped
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Yeah okay:) thanks
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