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is it necessary for a girl to bleed while sexual intercourse for the first time
No, it's not necessary for a woman to bleed. Different women experience different symptoms after having sex for the first time. Some women bleed; others have pain; others hear a "popping" sound. Some women experience all of these; some don't experience any.

Women who bleed typically have an average to larger size hymen that breaks for the first time during sex. Others don't bleed because it's a smaller hymen or it's been broken already from strenuous physical activity, masturbation, or other ways.

If you don't bleed on your wedding night, it doesn't mean you're not a virgin or that you did something wrong. Not every woman bleeds.
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It sounds from the title you chose, that you are in crisis of the necessity to bleed on your wedding night.



In some cultures, this is very important.

However, in today's modern society, there are many activities that may have torn a hymen or produced some bleeding at another time.



A few include: Horseback riding, gymnastics, athletics, dancing, cheerleading, swimming, bicycling, etc.



In short, you can't judge if a woman is a virgin based upon either the condition of a hymen nor on the amount of bleeding from the first intercourse. A sensitive, modern man will be aware of this and it will be reflected in his attitude toward his intended bride.



If you have an issue with this, seek a marriage counselor either together with your future husband, or alone. But get some face to face help first!
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