Hello,
I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I am on the pill (I have been on it 1 year now) and we generally protection as well just be doubly safe. Recently however, when he is in bare back, he wants to finish inside of me without using anything. Which at times I am up for as well but I am just so scared about it. I know it might sound stupid because I am on the pill but I am just so scared and nervous about what could/might happen. I can't have a pregnancy scare yet in my life.
Can someone settle my mind about this? If I am on the pill and am I safe/ relatively safe from getting pregnant?
Thanks!
Any man who tries to pressure you in to doing something you are not comfortable with is not good for you. That should be your real concern - that he thinks of himself over you. Men can enjoy sex with a condom plenty well ;-)
BigCat, thank you for this! I will add here, that my boyfriend is not pressuring me at all, he is always telling me that it is my choice and my body. I am just really nervous about it. He always put me before himself and I know this.
That's really good then, you have a nice boyfriend :)
Your doctor should be able to answer your questions as they know the pill you are on?