Nipple Orgasm and Stimulation

For those who want to 'learn' nipple orgasms, the best advise I can offer is to learn it through your own self-discovery. This is the most fun and must rewarding IYAM. Use your imagination, patience, sense of yourself and what you personally enjoy. It turns out that sex is NOT 'one size fits all' and not 'push button A for effect B'. It is incredibly diverse, like most other things human.

One thing I suggest is to never get obsessed about one thing or another. Don't make nub rubbing a MUST HAVE part of your sex. Celebrate and use the diversity within yourself and what gets you excited. But take your time figuring all this out. Take years.

Also a mini-lecture about our sense of self:

There is no such thing as 'gay' versus 'straight'. There is just you and how you feel within the spectrum. A lot of people have a choice in the matter. Many people don't. Honor that as part of human diversity. Let go of the "you have to be this!" from either side of the spectrum.

But most important of all is to respect yourself and make choices in your life that are GOOD FOR YOU. You don't ever have to do anything harmful to yourself. If you're not sure, then take the time to think about whatever it is over time. Get perspective from within yourself and your experiences. You are the boss of you. Make yourself happy to be yourself in all things.

The fact is that typically people treat others the way the treat themselves. Treat yourself with respect and love and you'll find it is natural for you to treat others that way as well. Be brave about it. The great goal in living is to become the best self you can be. You'll find you're inadvertently helping other people to find that for themselves as well.

Class dismissed.

hello !
i am too glad to find this place and would like to share my experiences here, which might help some one with similar possibility.
i am a straight male with children
but i had a keen interest is crossdressing before even knowing anything about sex.
that time i must have been 10 or 11.
it was a completely biological impulse.
in that tender age, i did not know why during the crossdressing , i get an erection ?

well, i used dress up like a girl and enjoy it when ever i had a time a place.
to cut the story short
i continued...

then i studied a lot
and found out
even if i drop it for some times
it comes back.

i took a long break of 5 years recently.
then in a book i read
accept you body completely

why to fight with your own body and suffer

i decided to give it a try
and it worked

i wanted to write all this on net
but
only wanted this share it with some place
where
you feel that i am not writing these words for pleasure.

(but i am enjoying the unburdening process)

i use to wear bra and stuff it to get a good shape.
and start practicing sex
with out ejaculation !
i have been doing so !

i thought
since i have been enjoying wearing female breasts !
i gave try to this experiment !

which was ment for 'woman only"
with the words
men should not even try!

but since i felt that
i have special breast area

i have been wearing bra and just sit and enjoy
( that i did not know what else to do!)

so technic is
(only for woman ! but i feel that men who cross dress and enjoy wearing artificial boobs may try too!)

thats what i was doing
i use to wear tight boob like out fit and
then on the bed do deep chaotic breathing and vibrate the body
till body takes you over

then at some peak point
just stop
and relax
relax

and then slowly bring your attention on both breast together
and feel
that your whole energy is melting in the breast area!

it feels wonderful

i used to feel that for hours and remain in heaven!

it is for all those girls
and men too who have that feel

thats when
in one of the sessions
i felt a deep multiple breast orgasm!

then i started searching on google
and here i am sharing all this with you!

so
i am not alone!
enjoy

You know... I'm glad I'm not the only one. ;-)

I'm a striaght male, 34, and since I was a teen, I've always had sensitive and rather large nipples (I'm male). In fact, I used to get those stupid nipple twisty things from other people and it killed me in pain. Anyhow, in addition to larger nipples, I also have obvious "breasts", aka man boobs and these grew when I was a teen. However, I got so embarrassed by them that I quit swimming, quit exercising (bouncing boobs) and then started gaining weight... then about 8 years ago, I lost nearly 80lbs, (still have about 30-40 left to go) but stopped because while my body was thinning out, my chest was not and proportionally, was bigger than before (in appearance, not actually). So... I stopped the weight loss because I really couldn't exercise without embarrassment and that is what I really needed to do to get off the last remaining weight.

Then last year I decided it wasn't fair that women could wear bras and I couldn't to support these things I have. No, I didn't really want to wear a bra (not into the whole cross dressing thing) nor did I want to emphasis my "girls" as females call them. But, anyhow, through a 3-5 months process, I realized I could fill a 42-D bra with ease. But, I could never wear such a thing in public, while I enjoyed the support of the bra (it was nice to have the support while walking around at home) I couldn't bear the thought of going in public wearing one.

Finally, I found compression shirts made for MEN with chests like mine (or smaller or larger) and my self-esteem over the last 12 months has just sky rocketed. My chest looks like a guys chest when I have one of these on, and I have been able to wear 1-2 sizes smaller shirts because of it. I have now been able to start exercising and starting to lose that extra weight.

But, through this all process, with the bras, the compression of the shirts... I started handling my chest a lot more because of it all and feeling things I can't say I ever felt before. Through a little continued trial and error... I had what seemed to me to be a full body orgasm through nipple stimulation alone, with a vibrating pulsing muscle thing in my lower stomach area echo through my body. It was nothing like I had felt before and was not at all related to penis stimulation (I was hardly erect). I felt I had what seemed to be more of a "female" orgasm, but I'm sure in no degree to that of a real woman.

The whole process is finicky I must say, but basically what happens is when I start circling my nipples, I start to feel a tingling sensation in my legs and slow surges to my toes and then feels like it comes back up my legs until they are engulfed in this sensation. Unlike my penis which is the core of the male arousal and sensitive to the touch, my nipples tend to be wired to another part of my body which feeds a larger network... thus I my nipples are not sensitive as say my penis, but through the process of building up at just the right level of stimulation in a faster stimulation, my whole body just starts flowing... and I start to tense up to where my lower back arches up (if I am laying flat on my back) in a uncontrolling jerking motion. But, I have these waves go through my body. Lately though... I have started to feel some sensation under my penis, a tightening that again, is not related to my penis.

These "orgasms" are separate. While I will get some fluid release from my penis during the course of nipping stimulation, and will get some penis erection, it will never be full or be what gives me these ejaculation free orgasms. Then... after that, touch my penis is like overly sensitive and I have to finish it up.

The weird thing is once I have reach the nipple body orgasm stage, I can stay there even if I stop the stimulation, my toes and legs tingle with excitement, and the area below my penis (not anal) tends to give the sensation it is "contracting and releasing" and simply reapplying nipple stimulation again, I can be there in 10-15 seconds almost. It's a feeling of it's own and really out of this world. But my muscles really contract a lot, so when I get done I have to really stretch out my leg muscles and arms and everything cause everything just tightens up so much.

But with this type of sensation and how my experience is, if a woman's is anything close to it, I can see how they can easily have multiple orgasms if all the right factors are involved and the dots all line up.

i am a female and i enjoy having my nipples sucked, licked. fondled, touched, pinched, bit gently. just attention period. i am in the 2% (it's actually more than 2% of us) who can cum just by nipple stimulation. my nipples are extremely sensitive. i'm throbbing just thinking about it. :$

I'm a 50-something straight male, and when I was a kid (about 8 ) I tried - for no reason I can think of - dripping hot candle wax on the nipples.
It hurt.
It also made my penis ridiculously engorged and stiff. :D
After a few tries, and getting the wax hot enough, it produced pretty much instantaneous orgasms, complete with all the usual fun feelings, except for ejaculation of semen. (Too young for that.) I did shoot pre-ejaculatory fluid out, though, sometimes up to my face. Just a few drops. At first, I thought it was pee. Gross! Soon figured it wasn't, though.
Guess I must have been a masochist.
I do not recommend trying this. If the wax is hot enough, it blisters the skin. To each his own, though.
After a time, I realized I didn't need the wax or pain, just gentle rubbing with the fingertips would do the same thing. Brilliant.
I found I could have repeat serial orgasms this way. (This would have been difficult with hot wax, I think the skin damage would have been too intense.) Maximum I did - and I know because I deliberately set out to find out - was 16 orgasms in one day, in three separate sessions. My penis was absolutely aching after that effort, though, even though I hadn't touched it once.(Not being in puberty has it's advantages.) I think it also caused it to start growing early. (Or maybe it was just its' time. Who knows?) By the time I was ten my penis was six inches erect/four flaccid - huge for my age. Sadly, it hasn't grown much since. :(
Nipples are still sensitive, big turn-on, but not quite enough to cum.

I am a male of 45 years age. In my 30 years of active sex life, nipe of myself as well as my sex partener were always be a correct wayleading to a nice orgasm. evenwhile masturbation, I need to stimulate niples of myself
Many people see nipples and breasts as the second most erogenous area of the body next to genitalia. The nipples, in particular, are filled with nerve endings — both in women and men — making them especially tuned in to touch. Sometimes the pleasure can lead to an orgasm, but it varies quite a bit from one person to the next.

For women, the sensitivity of the nipples and breasts often changes depending on the menstrual cycle, with less sensitivity in the first two weeks, heightened sensitivity during ovulation, and lessened sensitivity during menstruation. What's more, size doesn't matter to Mother Nature: women of all breast sizes can receive pleasure from a little attention.

To get the juices flowing, try caressing, kissing, licking, sucking, massaging, or nibbling the nipples and the breasts or chest. You can also use your tongue in a flicking motion or to trace circles. Start slowly and gently, gradually increasing pressure to figure out what feels best for you or your partner. Focusing on the nipples may help some people get their jollies, but it's hardly a requirement.

When it comes to coming, keep in mind that different people like different things. Talk with your partner to figure out what's going to work for both of you. Some people really enjoy nipple and/or breast and chest play, others may feel like complete boobs, and still others may not care too much either way. Even if you or your partner can't orgasm this way, it doesn't mean you can't incorporate what you've learned here in your repertoire of love-making skills.

love nipple play I can orgasm at will when stimulated by a hot female

I am so glad I found this site, this morning! For a while, now, I thought I was the only one! I am a straight married male, in my fifties. I've been married for over twenty-seven years, and, it was a long time ago that my lovely wife first tried to play with my nipples. At first, it tickled, and I pushed her hands away. I, also, had issues with the fact that I didn't think it was very masculine to enjoy that type of foreplay! Thank god my beautiful wife did not give up.
It wasn't until the last year or so, that I actually let her touch, stroke, pinch, pull, or tweak my nipples, willingly. But, was I ever rewarded when I did! At first, I had to fight off that ticklishness. After I did that, though, I quickly discovered what a tremendous turn on it was. It really heightened my state of arousal. Soon, it became a regular part of our love making, and, led to many great orgasms, for us both.
I've always loved her breasts, and, especially her erect nipples. I love to play with them, and, she really loves it, too, going wild every time I play with them, kiss, lick, s**k, or even bite them, gently. She's never told me, but, i don't think she's ever had an orgasm from it, though. A few months ago, she started to kiss, lick, and s**k my nipples, too, and, I quickly discovered how much of a turn-on that could be. That night, I had one of my best and strongest orgasms ever! She continues to do that to me, but, only once in a while. I wish I could get her to do it more often. When she kisses my nipples it feels like there is a nerve that goes straight to my penis. And, she's told me that when I do that to her, it feels the same. Needless to say, playing with my own nipples has become a regular part of my self-love routine.
My wife has, also, noticed that I seem to like it really rough, unlike her preference for more gentle stimulation. Now, she pinches, pulls, twists, tweaks, and even, bites me pretty hard. I'd like to try clothes pins, clamps, or even, having my nipples pierced. (Which I've given more than a passing thought!) I can't say I've ever orgasmed just from having my nipples stimulated, though. I've come really close a few times, but, it's just never worked out that way. You can rest assured, though, I'll eagerly keep trying! My wife's at work, now, but I can't wait for her to get home.
To conclude, I'd say to ALL who read this, take your time and enjoy! If you're a guy, don't be afraid to let your partner enjoy your nipples. You might find you enjoy it as much as I do. Who knows, maybe you'll even have an orgasm from it! If you're a girl, you don't have to worry about thinking you're a freak. (I envy you that!) And, if you've never let it go that far, maybe you'll find you can have an orgasm just from having your breasts played with and your nipples stimulated. And, if you're either a guy or a girl, and, you are able to have an orgasm from it, god bless you! Keep it up! I envy you, and, I'll keep experimenting until I do, or, I'm happily exhausted .

I am so glad I found this site, this morning! For a while, now, I thought I was the only one! I am a straight married male, in my fifties. I've been married for over twenty-seven years, and, it was a long time ago that my lovely wife first tried to play with my nipples. At first, it tickled, and I pushed her hands away. I, also, had issues with the fact that I didn't think it was very masculine to enjoy that type of foreplay! Thank god my beautiful wife did not give up.
It wasn't until the last year or so, that I actually let her touch, stroke, pinch, pull, or tweak my nipples, willingly. But, was I ever rewarded when I did! At first, I had to fight off that ticklishness. After I did that, though, I quickly discovered what a tremendous turn on it was. It really heightened my state of arousal. Soon, it became a regular part of our love making, and, led to many great orgasms, for us both.
I've always loved her breasts, and, especially her erect nipples. I love to play with them, and, she really loves it, too, going wild every time I play with them, kiss, lick, s**k, or even bite them, gently. She's never told me, but, i don't think she's ever had an orgasm from it, though. A few months ago, she started to kiss, lick, and s**k my nipples, too, and, I quickly discovered how much of a turn-on that could be. That night, I had one of my best and strongest orgasms ever! She continues to do that to me, but, only once in a while. I wish I could get her to do it more often. When she kisses my nipples it feels like there is a nerve that goes straight to my penis. And, she's told me that when I do that to her, it feels the same. Needless to say, playing with my own nipples has become a regular part of my self-love routine.
My wife has, also, noticed that I seem to like it really rough, unlike her preference for more gentle stimulation. Now, she pinches, pulls, twists, tweaks, and even, bites me pretty hard. I'd like to try clothes pins, clamps, or even, having my nipples pierced. (Which I've given more than a passing thought!) I can't say I've ever orgasmed just from having my nipples stimulated, though. I've come really close a few times, but, it's just never worked out that way. You can rest assured, though, I'll eagerly keep trying! My wife's at work, now, but I can't wait for her to get home.
To conclude, I'd say to ALL who read this, take your time and enjoy! If you're a guy, don't be afraid to let your partner enjoy your nipples. You might find you enjoy it as much as I do. Who knows, maybe you'll even have an orgasm from it! If you're a girl, you don't have to worry about thinking you're a freak. (I envy you that!) And, if you've never let it go that far, maybe you'll find you can have an orgasm just from having your breasts played with and your nipples stimulated. And, if you're either a guy or a girl, and, you are able to have an orgasm from it, god bless you! Keep it up! I envy you, and, I'll keep experimenting until I do, or, I'm happily exhausted .

I am a male and I just tried to stimulate my nipples with a vibrator (special vibrator for prostate/G-spot stimulation) and after around 10 minutes i got an orgasm, including full ejaculation !! This was much more deep and intense than a "normal" masturbation. Really incredible. :-)

I just tried to slightly (!!) stimulate my penis during using the vibrator with my nipples and the result was an "earthshaking" orgasm !! Ejaculation was quite average but the orgasm moved through the whole body and the feeling took a while to completely disappear. I was also sweating a bit (like i would have had sex for an hour or so...) and my legs felt a bit weak for some time. All in all really extreme and wonderful !! :-D

BTW i discovered that my right nipple is much more sensitive than the left one.

my girlfriend and i do it all the time.
and i just started trying this a few weeks ago.
i can make her orgasm just by playing with her nipples.
it takes a while, and make sure she doesnt get bored by switching it up some.
shes practically begging me to finger her when im done.
btw im a girl :-) haha

My nipples are very sensitive, but I have had a full nipple orgasm only once. I masturbated myself almost to orgasm, then lightly stroked my nipples. When I ejaculated, the sensation went all through my body.

hooray! it's finally happened! i'm a previous poster, and, though i've enjoyed having my nipples stimulated, i'd never had an orgasm from it, until the other night! i hadn't had an orgasm for almost a week, when my wife suggested i put on my red thong. she was dressed in just her bra & panties. that always means we're in for a night of great sex.
"let me tie YOU up, for a change!" she said.
i let her tie me, spread-eagle to the bed. she started kissing my nipples. after just a little while, she started to lick & suck them.
"oh, my god! you're driving me crazy!" i whispered.
"you really like this, don't you?" she asked, as she started to rake them with her teeth, then, bite them, gently, at first, but, harder as she went.
"oh, yes! god, yes! i love that!" i answered.
after a while, she stopped, and, announced, "i've got a surprise for you. i think you're really going to like it!"
she opened the nightstand drawer & produced two wooden clothespins! i was tied, helpless to stop her, to the bed. but, i really didn't want to, anyway! she put the clothespins on my nipples. it really hurt!
"god! that hurts!" i screamed.
"shut up!" she said, "i think you'll learn to like it!"
she left the clothespins on my nipples for almost half an hour. and, though, it hurt, i began to feel an orgasm building up. soon, i began to thrust my hips up off the bed, as i felt my warm sticky cream starting to fill my thong. that night, i had one of the best orgasms i'd ever had! it was so long, hard, & strong. we'll be repeating that little scene, soon & often, i hope. my wife loved it, too!

I dated a bottom guy and all I had to do was play with his nipples and he would have a massive orgasm. His favorite way to cum was to ride me while I was on my back with me working his nipples. He didn't even touch himself and would have an incredible orgasm.