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im 19 and have been having sex since i was 15. i have had a 3 year relationship and now in another relationship. my problem is that i dont feel alot when having sex? unless my boyfriend is somehow rubbing up against my clit. how do i start to feel normal pleasure and orgasim? i am comfortable with sex aswell

Maybe you are an emotional type and you need love to have full pleasure. Maybe you haven't love any of those boys enough. Just saying. Anyway, sometimes for a girl it is really hard to find a good way to get full pleasure. When it comes to this, it is nothing unusual because the clitoris is one of the most common erogenous zones for women and some girls just can't have an orgasm unless they are rubbing it. It is totally normal and you should not be feeling bad about this thing. Sometimes it is harder to have any type of orgasm, whatever you do, some ladies just can't experience the orgasm, so if you ask me, you should be happy with it. 

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That is normal. Many women do not get pleasure form direct sex they also need direct clitoral stimulation.
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i also never bleed when i lost my virginity and it didnt hurt at all, didn't feel anything. everyone always talks about how sore it is.
why is this?
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Some women have a harder time with this, depending on their anatomy.

Not all women bleed, experience pain, or dislike sex.

Everyone's experience is different, as you have experienced.
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