I am desperate for nothing seems to work with my kids-they are totally out of control and those teenage years are terrifying me-she is 14 and he is 16 and I don't know how all this came to this point including school results at first place and all in all nothing seems to work with my kids for long period of time and I really am having hard time dealing with this. Is there anyone to help me on this and how am I suppose to get my kids back on normal traces. Thanks!
Well it is not like I love saying this but if you ask me it is your mistake at first place-or precisely parent's mistake, you haven't mentioned whether you are married or divorced maybe. Anyway it is never too late but to me it looks like you have missed the main part of their education for you know this sort of a things are about to be avoided beginning from the early childhood. Did you spent enough of quality time with them when they were young, what sort of your relationship you have with them, were you nervous and dissatisfied through all their childhood and so on I could keep going this way all the day. Anyway what I wanted to say-what the parent has done during their kid's childhood regarding their education especially that is what they could hang on to for life but on the other hand it is never too late and plus those are teenagers that are usually hard to be controlled but everything works much better when there is more life quality.