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Our daughter wants to go naked at home

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Guest

Dont be a prude, let her do it even if friends are there, It is no big deal
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Guest

I truly feel you need a huge pat on the back. First just talking with her and not just making the rules. Then letting her change as she got older and continuing to have discussions as she got older and her body changed. Giving you opinion and why but still leaving it to her within acceptable limitations for both of you. Congratulations! I’m sure you’ve raised a wonderful daughter with positive body image and self esteem!
What we all need more conversation and understanding. Not because I said so. Love it.
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Guest

Wondering if there's an update on this. How did her dad handle it. My dad won't even consider it. :(
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curly creche

My dad is the same way. Very uptight.
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Guest

Teen girls like to strut their stuff so she will show her p***y to see how people react.
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Guest

A teenage child who is confident and comfortable enough to want to be naked with family and friends has a better level of mental health than most people of any age. As nakedness is our natural state, fear of nakedness is an artificial societal encumbrance. Her friends are fortunate that they never had it happen to them. Much of the joy of life is about exploring new experiences, and your role as parents is to guide them, with appropriate limitations to keep them safe without stifling their curiosity.
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Guest

I feel too that body confidence is an important thing. When adolescent I was very shy because I felt I had no boobs at all, I was ill at ease whenever I needed to undress and I hid as well as I could. My daughter has inherited my chest: no boobs and barely nipples but all through puberty she was very free with nudity and often naked at home and, I know, also often topless with friends, both boys and girls. We never argued about it, I let her live her life and felt happy that she didn't experience my problems. Her body or at least her chest felt completely non sexual to her.
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dancing tortellini

I love that she does away with the towels! Which I love that she does away with the towels, is that I love that her Loving Knickers rub on my Loving Knickers and I love my Loving Knickers to rub on her Loving Knickers! 

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finest variation

I agree. She seems so comfortable with her body and feels comfortable in the nude. I think kudos to her.
I wish we could all be like her.
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Guest

How does your husband feel about this? And how do you feel about your husband seeing her teenage friends walking around naked in front of him?
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luscious encyclopedia

This won't be a popular opinion, I'm sure.

I know it seems as if this young woman's parents have tried to meet her half-way. But it saddens me, the urge to make someone feel such shame -- to feel ashamed of the body they have been blessed to inhabit! Why this strong desire to make her suffer in this way? What crime has she committed, really? Are we not already subject at every turn to the whims of a prudish society that cares more about appearance than substance? Do we not carry around ENOUGH guilt, shame and self-loathing that we struggle to live with every day? This young woman has reclaimed the innocent joy of being naked that I'm sure she felt as a toddler -- a freedom that we ALL felt as toddlers -- until blind obedience to other people's ideas of what is "acceptable behavior" darkens our world and forces that joyful freedom into painful submission. The effort to "reign her in" is almost unbearably sad to me. Do these parents think she is somehow deformed in some way that they are so ashamed of her obvious beauty? Is she simply to be adjudged as sick, or strange, or weird? Or is it really the result of deprivation in their own childhoods. If THEY had to toe the line and stifle that freedom in themselves, then SHE'D better do it too? Why?

Rather than restrict her and control her and bargain with her to betray herself, why don't they grace her with a membership to a nudist resort where she can freely enjoy herself, unfettered by hide-bound notions of what is "right" and "wrong". Wouldn't celebrating her beauty be a better approach than to try to bend her to their will so THEY can avoid embarrassment? She is special, not defective in her naked joy.

Forgive me --- it just makes no sense to me.

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Guest

If she is comfortable, I see no harm at all. It's 100 percent natural.
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Guest

I think it's wonderful that your daughter is comfortable to be naked without fear of what other people think. My ex partner and I raised our kids to wear as little or as much as they chose as my ex wife came from a family where she didn't have the choice to wear clothes. When she was about 8 they took away her clothes and she was raised right through her teenage years naked. Interestingly though she said over time that she actually started enjoying the freedom even when family, friends etc came over and she was the only one nude. Everyone just accepted that she was nude and that's where I think your daughter wants to be. We live in a world now where people are lot more accepting and even back in my ex wife's childhood days people were accepting of her body as her choice of "dress". I asked her once what it was like to go through puberty in front of everyone and she said that it was awkward at times for people to discuss her breasts and vagina openly but ultimately she said she feels more confident and accepting of herself now. The other thing they did for her to control the bodily fluids during puberty was to allow her time for self pleasure. That way she could try and avoid leaving wet marks and also encouraged self exploration. Best of luck and keep us updated with how it all goes!
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Guest

hio im baron and im a nudist with vestiphobia and i think bein naked is just a natural thing. It is not unhealthy for a child to go clothing free. let her explore the naked world maybe she will become a nudist or she will grow out of it let it be her choice.
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Guest

Thanks for your post. My wife and I have decided to raise our daughter as a nudist as we feel it's good for her confidence. She resisted a bit at first but is now settling in to her new lifestyle. She's just hitting puberty so is changing and I've noticed she is getting quite damp between her legs (it's obvious to see and we can even smell her vagina at times). Should we encourage her to relieve herself like your ex partner did? We're thinking of giving her time on the lounge to play with her body?
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