this is a little embarassing but its just something im unsure about, when i am having sex im either really really lubricated, too much that its a turn off...or i am too dry to do anything. i dont get this wet because of increased stimulation, it just happens...i wouldn't be asking if it wasn't a problem...it's just thats it's so so so wet it makes me feel discusting. what could be causing this, and what may help my situation?