Hello.
Ive recently gotten married. Sometimes I feel live i have too much skin around my Vigina. Its hard for my husband to go inside of me at 1st. He really has to push & well sometimes that hurts me. mayb he is too big. I dont know., does this happen (2nd) while he is inside of me. if he speeds up I starts hurting inside on my vigina like on surface I feel pain and burning. why?, plz help.. Its feels like there is a bruse inside of me. Then i usually have ask him to stop. becuz it hurts so much. Usually It hurts for few hrs after sex tooo. pain + burning feeling. now its to a point that he is scared to have sex with me.
Ive recently gotten married. Sometimes I feel live i have too much skin around my Vigina. Its hard for my husband to go inside of me at 1st. He really has to push & well sometimes that hurts me. mayb he is too big. I dont know., does this happen (2nd) while he is inside of me. if he speeds up I starts hurting inside on my vigina like on surface I feel pain and burning. why?, plz help.. Its feels like there is a bruse inside of me. Then i usually have ask him to stop. becuz it hurts so much. Usually It hurts for few hrs after sex tooo. pain + burning feeling. now its to a point that he is scared to have sex with me.
It sounds like a psychological pain to me. Are you afraid of having sex or have some questions or issues you need answers to? Is he your first lover or you already had sexual intercourse before?
Maybe you need to start slowly with a long, long foreplay so you can relax and come to the point you really want him. You may lose pain that way.
When did this pain start? From the first intercourse, or…..?
I would like to hear from you again with some more details and talk with you through your problem and see if I can help you or you may need professional help.
Maybe you need to start slowly with a long, long foreplay so you can relax and come to the point you really want him. You may lose pain that way.
When did this pain start? From the first intercourse, or…..?
I would like to hear from you again with some more details and talk with you through your problem and see if I can help you or you may need professional help.
I dont think that the pain you're feeling is psychologically related.
You see, some women (myself included) have what is called a tipped uterus, where the uterus is tipped backwards instead of forward like normal, and the cervix projects outwards towards the opening of the vagina. The position of the cervix is likely what causes the bruising pain when he pushes into you. This motion pushes the cervix up into the uterus which in turn is pushed into the abdominal cavity, and sometimes into other organs (ie stomach) A tipped uterus happens for many reasons and is no reason to be alarmed. It can cause some pregnancy difficulties if it doesnt self correct(almost always does), but otherwise isnt a major problem. A few symptoms might include, painful menstration pain during sex, problems using tampons ect. You can avoid painful intercourse usually by tilting your upper body slightly upwards as if in a 45 degree sitting postion (try pillows or a recliner). This pushes the cervix downwards as if it were normally positioned and prevents the pain. To be totally sure that you do have a tipped uterus have a gynecologist give you a manual exam (not as scary as it seems) and tell you. If it is a persisting problem there are a few exercises to help push the cervix into the correct position, and minor surgical options.
Find out more info here: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/womenshealth/tippeduterus.html
Hope this was of some use to you.
You see, some women (myself included) have what is called a tipped uterus, where the uterus is tipped backwards instead of forward like normal, and the cervix projects outwards towards the opening of the vagina. The position of the cervix is likely what causes the bruising pain when he pushes into you. This motion pushes the cervix up into the uterus which in turn is pushed into the abdominal cavity, and sometimes into other organs (ie stomach) A tipped uterus happens for many reasons and is no reason to be alarmed. It can cause some pregnancy difficulties if it doesnt self correct(almost always does), but otherwise isnt a major problem. A few symptoms might include, painful menstration pain during sex, problems using tampons ect. You can avoid painful intercourse usually by tilting your upper body slightly upwards as if in a 45 degree sitting postion (try pillows or a recliner). This pushes the cervix downwards as if it were normally positioned and prevents the pain. To be totally sure that you do have a tipped uterus have a gynecologist give you a manual exam (not as scary as it seems) and tell you. If it is a persisting problem there are a few exercises to help push the cervix into the correct position, and minor surgical options.
Find out more info here: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/womenshealth/tippeduterus.html
Hope this was of some use to you.
I totally have the same problem and i have only had one partner. if you find out anything that helps please write to me. please my relationship is suffering because of it.
okk u feel burning n paining so i think ur husband not perfect 4 sex.....he has no experence in the sex....but u know my husband is very experient in the sex reproduction,,,so i m very happy in my married life i love him .... :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D