I have a hard, red, painful bump at the top of my labia near my clitoris. I noticed it the day after I used a personal massager with my husband but it's been about 4 days now and it hurts. I tried using a clean needle and peroxide and such to pop it (which didn't work) and THEN I researched and read that I shouldn't do that. I have had ingrown hairs before, but I don't see an ingrown hair and this hurts so much more than an ingrown hair ever has. It's about the size of a pea (maybe 2?) and is definitely red. I have also noticed more discharge the last day and it has a yellowish tinge to it. (In order to provide as much info as possible, I have a 15 month old and since having him I've had a ton more discharge but not yellow and this is more up top than near the bottom.). I can go to my primary doctor Monday, or try and get an appointment with my gynecologist but they are always booked out, or I can go to urgent care tonight. Honestly, I thought about urgent care because it truly is painful, but I don't know if they will handle something like this. Also, I took a hot bath last night and have tried 2-3 warm compresses today at work in the bathroom for 2-5 minutes each. Help!!