Parents, would you buy your preteen or teenager a sex toy?

If I had a daughter I would quite willingly go out and buy her a bullet vibrator simply because I would rather her explore her own body first and how it works and what feels like to have a real pleasurable orgasmt than with some random guy when she's a teen and think that a quick fumble is how orgasms always feel.

You are so funny; I am laughing so hard that I cannot sit up. If you were my son, I would give you up for adoption. I glad you not my son to my daughters. Ture girls who have an excellent relationship with their parents and their brother and sister do not do random sexual behavior with others. If a girl as your daughter had a casual sex relationship with other boys means her relationship with her father was not good. Occasional contact with either gender is a dangerous relationship and will lead to abuse. When a friendship develops over a while that they are loyal to each other, they honor each other and have genuine love, which does not result in abusing each other. Sex toys can become abuse thing for girls. It can cause them to turn to sell themselves on the street, turning to human trafficking or sexually abuse others in their relationship.

Also, you need to know that sex toys can destroy the inside of a girls' body.

Really, inter tune? Your reaction seems a little harsh, even if presented in a kidding fashion. To the question -- Obviously such an intimate thought is completely dependent on the type of relationship between the parent and the child, along with the level of intensity of the child's curiosity, and their maturity at the age. If such conditions warrant (and it is solely at the discretion of the parent, of course), then a discussion broaching the topic with the child would seem to be the first thing on the agenda. If the child shows -- or maintains -- an interest after a frank and non-threatening talk about such things, then it can do no harm, in my opinion, to allow or even encourage such an exploration of sexual sensations as they are beginning to arise. Crossing that line into sexual maturity is difficult enough for any of us to negotiate, and a helping "hand" (or vibrator, etc.) could be very useful. For females particularly, the opportunity to use something more appropriate than their toothbrush or the handle of a hair brush , would likely be a definite blessing.

I study child and young adult psychology. Having you teen feel like the need to rush through to have sex isn’t what you want? Do you want you’re son to get a girl pregnant or you’re daughter get pregnant? Your answer is definitely no. Buying your child a sex toy will help them understand what they want and if they even want to have sex yet. And instead of having it with a “friend”. Your children’s friends can also abuse them it’s not just random strangers. I hope you realize that