Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex the first time and the penis entered only a little bit i thought that the hymen broke because there was blood on my panties but my period fineshed the day before so i wasn't sure if it was from the hymen or from the period :S The second and third time we tried it could't get in at all and he tried with two fingers they go in but deep deep it starts hurting very much. I don't know if the hymen is still not torn or the hole it's just to small.Please help i don't know what to think or do !
These things take time, you both need to be patient. First of all make sure you are having protected sex with a condom and or birth control pill.
Secondly make sure you both are relaxed and aroused fully.... touching, kissing, holding and even sexy talking can make you both very aroused...but do what you must to make sure you are properly lubricated.
Then have him enter you slowly and then firmly push in.... if you feel pain have him stop but NOT pull out....relax and breathe and then have him begin to push again.
Secondly make sure you both are relaxed and aroused fully.... touching, kissing, holding and even sexy talking can make you both very aroused...but do what you must to make sure you are properly lubricated.
Then have him enter you slowly and then firmly push in.... if you feel pain have him stop but NOT pull out....relax and breathe and then have him begin to push again.
The pain i felt when he was in deep with 2 fingers was because my hymen is still not torn or because the the hole it's just to small and tight ? Thank you for you reply