Please help
I have not had my period for over a month now. Granted i am still young and my body will still prevent me from having a moderate and on-time period like many older women, but i am worried.
For the past 4 months, my childhood friend and i have been having sexual intercourse. Out of all of our encounters, we have had both protected and unprotected sex. He has always pulled out and has taken a shower both before and after, as i have. When we had had sex, it would vary between days or sometimes weeks apart depending on our schedules and my period.
We are very open with one another and last week i told him that we should stop having sex until my period comes or until i am ready to take a pregnancy test. We are commited to not having sex for 4 weeks from today. To help prevent this, we are sleeping in opposite rooms and being more active than usual with our jobs and our community.
Our parents are not aware of this. However, his mother knows that we have had sexual intercourse before. Since both he and i have a year left of school, we do not want to interfere with our future in education and careers. He plans to join the military when we are out of school and I plan on attending Med School. We both have graduated early and attend an academy which focuses on different majors. We are very responsible people. However, this time we have done something wrong.
We don't know what to do, who to talk to, or what to think about this situation. Any outside help would be a complete blessing. His family and mine are very close and as i had previously mentioned we have grown up together so there will be support from all areas if i am, in fact, pregnant. The only thing i am worried about honestly would be conception before marriage, financial issues, and disappointed parents.
Please help us.
Thank you for reading this if you took the time to do so.
I am very worried.
I have not had my period for over a month now. Granted i am still young and my body will still prevent me from having a moderate and on-time period like many older women, but i am worried.
For the past 4 months, my childhood friend and i have been having sexual intercourse. Out of all of our encounters, we have had both protected and unprotected sex. He has always pulled out and has taken a shower both before and after, as i have. When we had had sex, it would vary between days or sometimes weeks apart depending on our schedules and my period.
We are very open with one another and last week i told him that we should stop having sex until my period comes or until i am ready to take a pregnancy test. We are commited to not having sex for 4 weeks from today. To help prevent this, we are sleeping in opposite rooms and being more active than usual with our jobs and our community.
Our parents are not aware of this. However, his mother knows that we have had sexual intercourse before. Since both he and i have a year left of school, we do not want to interfere with our future in education and careers. He plans to join the military when we are out of school and I plan on attending Med School. We both have graduated early and attend an academy which focuses on different majors. We are very responsible people. However, this time we have done something wrong.
We don't know what to do, who to talk to, or what to think about this situation. Any outside help would be a complete blessing. His family and mine are very close and as i had previously mentioned we have grown up together so there will be support from all areas if i am, in fact, pregnant. The only thing i am worried about honestly would be conception before marriage, financial issues, and disappointed parents.
Please help us.
Thank you for reading this if you took the time to do so.
I am very worried.
SHOWERING and pulling out does not prevent pregnancy!
ONLY condoms and birth control methods will prevent pregnancy.
You need to take a test NOW. You should also consider birth control methods.
Having unprotected sex LEADS TO PREGNANCY, so it would not be surprising if you were indeed pregnant.
ONLY condoms and birth control methods will prevent pregnancy.
You need to take a test NOW. You should also consider birth control methods.
Having unprotected sex LEADS TO PREGNANCY, so it would not be surprising if you were indeed pregnant.
Me and my boyfriend are still young and in school. We have been having unprotected sex for about 1-2 months now. Am I pregnant and does having a normal routine blood test detect the pregnancy?