Hello I'm 22yrs.
Im havinig a time trying to figure all this out. My last period was May 14th. Today is June 12th. And my period hasnt came on. I took a pregnancy test yesterday and It came back positive. I was on birthcontrol at the begining of May but I then stopped after skipping a few. I had intercourse on ( May 22 ) with one gentleman without a condom but he didnt ejaculate in me. He pulled out before that occured. Than I had intercorse with a different gentleman on ( MAY 29th..) Where we didnt use a condom but the next morning when I got home I notice sperm in my underwear, I was drinking at the club last night and me and this gentleman have known eachother for a while, I have a feeling I passed out during intercoarse. I have a strong feeling that he came in me considering the sperm I found the next morning in my underwear.
I went to babycanter to figure my ovulation dates so i could figure the date of contraception. I put in my last period date and it said I was ovulating from May 25th -May 28th, with a due date of February 18th.
If I had intercourse with this second gentleman the day after ( babycenter.coms ovulation calendar said I was ovulating) whih would be the father of my unborne child??
I took a pregnancy test about 3 weeks ago and it was negative. As of yesterday It was positive.
please respond to me as soon as posible..... All responces welcomed. I know your thinking two differnt partners within a week is NASTY!!! I'm single and I know both gentleman very well... I know its not a good look though.
Thank you all in advance.
Please give me an idea of which would be my unborne childs father.
Im havinig a time trying to figure all this out. My last period was May 14th. Today is June 12th. And my period hasnt came on. I took a pregnancy test yesterday and It came back positive. I was on birthcontrol at the begining of May but I then stopped after skipping a few. I had intercourse on ( May 22 ) with one gentleman without a condom but he didnt ejaculate in me. He pulled out before that occured. Than I had intercorse with a different gentleman on ( MAY 29th..) Where we didnt use a condom but the next morning when I got home I notice sperm in my underwear, I was drinking at the club last night and me and this gentleman have known eachother for a while, I have a feeling I passed out during intercoarse. I have a strong feeling that he came in me considering the sperm I found the next morning in my underwear.
I went to babycanter to figure my ovulation dates so i could figure the date of contraception. I put in my last period date and it said I was ovulating from May 25th -May 28th, with a due date of February 18th.
If I had intercourse with this second gentleman the day after ( babycenter.coms ovulation calendar said I was ovulating) whih would be the father of my unborne child??
I took a pregnancy test about 3 weeks ago and it was negative. As of yesterday It was positive.
please respond to me as soon as posible..... All responces welcomed. I know your thinking two differnt partners within a week is NASTY!!! I'm single and I know both gentleman very well... I know its not a good look though.
Thank you all in advance.
Please give me an idea of which would be my unborne childs father.
Hi Lala: Depending on WHEN you stopped the pill, if it was close to #1 guy, he is less of a chance than #2. Becasue even though the pill starts leaving your body after the 1st day, it does take awhile too totally be out.
It takes just 1 sperm for there too be fertilization, but the "Natural Method" - not having sex when you are ovulating and pulling out. Is about 65 - 75% effective at birth control. So I am really thinking man #2 is the father. The problem of course is convincing him of that!!!! The only way too tell for sure will be either a blood test invitro - which can be dangerous - or waiting for the blood test after baby is born. The baby will have the fathers blood type, IF both men have the same blood type, then a DNA test will be used. IF you are on Welfare at the time of the birth and want Child Support, usually Welfare will pay for a test - too determine the father and who too go after.
I sure don't envy your situation hon. I'm sure this isn't what you were expecting. BUT as far as my 2 cents are concerned, you need too talk to both men and let them know that either one could be the father. Because even though I strongly believe it is man #2, that isn't in gold!!!!!
The reason why the pregnancy test came back negative is that the HCG levels weren't strong enough yet - even with either guy. And unfortunately because they were technically close together a week is not a long time too science! Too be open with both men - even though hard - is the ONLY way. Because keeping a secret like that will be VERY hard and not right to the guy that could be the dad. Let me know how everything goes OK!? And GOOD LUCK!
It takes just 1 sperm for there too be fertilization, but the "Natural Method" - not having sex when you are ovulating and pulling out. Is about 65 - 75% effective at birth control. So I am really thinking man #2 is the father. The problem of course is convincing him of that!!!! The only way too tell for sure will be either a blood test invitro - which can be dangerous - or waiting for the blood test after baby is born. The baby will have the fathers blood type, IF both men have the same blood type, then a DNA test will be used. IF you are on Welfare at the time of the birth and want Child Support, usually Welfare will pay for a test - too determine the father and who too go after.
I sure don't envy your situation hon. I'm sure this isn't what you were expecting. BUT as far as my 2 cents are concerned, you need too talk to both men and let them know that either one could be the father. Because even though I strongly believe it is man #2, that isn't in gold!!!!!
The reason why the pregnancy test came back negative is that the HCG levels weren't strong enough yet - even with either guy. And unfortunately because they were technically close together a week is not a long time too science! Too be open with both men - even though hard - is the ONLY way. Because keeping a secret like that will be VERY hard and not right to the guy that could be the dad. Let me know how everything goes OK!? And GOOD LUCK!