Hey guys, thanks for reading what I have to say.
As a college student I made a pretty bad decision and had drunken intercourse two times on two separate occasions with a girl. The first time we had intercourse we used a condom and I stayed in a little bit longer after I ejaculated and the tip of the condom was hanging a good inch off of my penis with the rest of the condom remaining around my shaft. The condom did not break and I am just concerned if this is normal or not.
The second time we had intercourse we made a bad decision for a bit and I was inside of her with no condom on about 3 different occasions for about 10 seconds each time (nowhere near ejaculation all three times). I am concerned about pre-cum, even though I did not have a recent ejaculation (several days before) and I urinated several times in between the last ejaculation and the time I was in her. I heard urination helps to clear out the residual semen in the urethra. Is this true? After the three unprotected insertions I put on a condom and ejaculated in it normally.
Here is the crazy part. The girl I had intercourse with hasn't had a period in two YEARS. I heard you can ovulate without a period. This is the scary part for me because I won't be able to see if she missed a period or not.
Some other information: We are both STD free. She told me she was "pretty much" regular with her birth control. The "pretty much" scares me. She had a pregnancy test at the doctors office 12 days after the second occasion (19 days after the first) and it came out negative.
Any comment of advice about this would be great. Do you think she has a good chance of being pregnant?
Also, please don't call me stupid or anything along those lines because I already know I made a few bad decisions with this and I plan on pursuing a life of "secondary virginity" until marriage. I am not ready for children and would NOT like to spend the rest of my life with this person.
Thanks so much for reading! I really appreciate it!
As a college student I made a pretty bad decision and had drunken intercourse two times on two separate occasions with a girl. The first time we had intercourse we used a condom and I stayed in a little bit longer after I ejaculated and the tip of the condom was hanging a good inch off of my penis with the rest of the condom remaining around my shaft. The condom did not break and I am just concerned if this is normal or not.
The second time we had intercourse we made a bad decision for a bit and I was inside of her with no condom on about 3 different occasions for about 10 seconds each time (nowhere near ejaculation all three times). I am concerned about pre-cum, even though I did not have a recent ejaculation (several days before) and I urinated several times in between the last ejaculation and the time I was in her. I heard urination helps to clear out the residual semen in the urethra. Is this true? After the three unprotected insertions I put on a condom and ejaculated in it normally.
Here is the crazy part. The girl I had intercourse with hasn't had a period in two YEARS. I heard you can ovulate without a period. This is the scary part for me because I won't be able to see if she missed a period or not.
Some other information: We are both STD free. She told me she was "pretty much" regular with her birth control. The "pretty much" scares me. She had a pregnancy test at the doctors office 12 days after the second occasion (19 days after the first) and it came out negative.
Any comment of advice about this would be great. Do you think she has a good chance of being pregnant?
Also, please don't call me stupid or anything along those lines because I already know I made a few bad decisions with this and I plan on pursuing a life of "secondary virginity" until marriage. I am not ready for children and would NOT like to spend the rest of my life with this person.
Thanks so much for reading! I really appreciate it!
well it can still be too early to tell since she might have gotton regnant the second time and some eomen dont find out their pregnant until their six weeks along. so my best advice to you is to figure out 6wks from the 2nd time you had sex and by then u will know for sure. p.s. thid woild be easier if we knew wghe nshe ovulates. good luck to you. dont worry so much in the meantime.
We had sex 22 days after my menstruation cycle. Is there a chance of conceiving?