Hi, plz help me i'm really freaking out here. Me and my fiancee were fooling around the other day, i was near the end of my period (8th day, there was still some brown discharge), he had his penus on (not in) my anus and he didn't ejaculate, there wasn't any precum either, it was dry by the time he got it there.
Anyway i totally freaked out immediately after doing it because i started thinking what if there was actually precum or what if some ejaculate came out without him knowing (could this happen?) and it came near my vagina (i'm a virgin btw)?! and what if i was very fertile that day?!
After doing what we did i wiped the area (only my anus from the inside to the outside trying not to touch my vagina) with some tissues and then washed it with some water, i tried to make sure not to let anything enter my vagina if it was actually there. two days later i started to have these pains kind of like the ones you have just before your period (sharp stabbing-like pains in my lower abdomen) and i thought maybe they were ovulation pains. They came and went for about two days and i think i ovulated on the 12th day of my cycle (judging from my cervical mucus secretions).
The problem is i can't keep this out of my mind that i think i'm starting to imagine things like this same pain every now and then (please keep in mind that i've been -unusually- exercising these days so could these pains be related to exercise?) and i'm having these frequent headaches and i heard that thay can be early signs of pregnancy!
Could i just be over reacting and letting stress take over me? What are the chances that i might be pregnant? please help soon
Anyway i totally freaked out immediately after doing it because i started thinking what if there was actually precum or what if some ejaculate came out without him knowing (could this happen?) and it came near my vagina (i'm a virgin btw)?! and what if i was very fertile that day?!
After doing what we did i wiped the area (only my anus from the inside to the outside trying not to touch my vagina) with some tissues and then washed it with some water, i tried to make sure not to let anything enter my vagina if it was actually there. two days later i started to have these pains kind of like the ones you have just before your period (sharp stabbing-like pains in my lower abdomen) and i thought maybe they were ovulation pains. They came and went for about two days and i think i ovulated on the 12th day of my cycle (judging from my cervical mucus secretions).
The problem is i can't keep this out of my mind that i think i'm starting to imagine things like this same pain every now and then (please keep in mind that i've been -unusually- exercising these days so could these pains be related to exercise?) and i'm having these frequent headaches and i heard that thay can be early signs of pregnancy!
Could i just be over reacting and letting stress take over me? What are the chances that i might be pregnant? please help soon
Could someone please answer me i'm about to lose my mind here...i just want to know what are the possibilities of getting pregnant in this case
if u didnt feel anything wet, there probally wasnt any cum
also, if he was on ur anus, its very unlikly it got to ur vagina, even if it did, the odds of the sperm traveleing from ur anus and actually inside of ur vagina is very little
if u were menstrating then the egg is being flushed out, so it cant be fertalized
also, if he was on ur anus, its very unlikly it got to ur vagina, even if it did, the odds of the sperm traveleing from ur anus and actually inside of ur vagina is very little
if u were menstrating then the egg is being flushed out, so it cant be fertalized
thanx for your answer...it's actually a bit of a relief to hear it from someone although i've been trying to convince myself for ages...thak u
OMG i have the same problem at the moment.. and im freaking out.
so did u turn out pregnant?
so did u turn out pregnant?
the reason for all that is going on is, back when i was a virgin but i only messed around without have vaginal sex, since you are not use to sex or anything being seriously inserted you aare very senetive being that, most women that still have sex and have it often can bleed but its like you said its not like blood it just a reaction from not being use to doing types of things like this or just extra senstive. also part of the reason i figured out because this has happened to me is if your arent wet enough it is going to be painful and thats the worst thing to do is to try to start feeling touching or having sex being dry. i know this post is late but i use to freak out about it to so if youu havent figured out the reason why im here to help. also im sure u know by now if your pregnant but, he would knew if he cam but pre-cum is false to make you become pregnant the only why u can become pregnant with precum is ifyour are going your 2nd round or he had just recently ejacualted before you guys started messing around.
but as for future reference, if you want to stay a virgin and still have without worries have him use a condom or just stick to fingering no touching of pelvic areas to avoid worries. also if you do in fact start having sex go ahead and use spermicidal condoms because they are designed to kill off sperm so just in case the condom rips or you think it does it eases your mind alittle less. and dont do unprotected it doesnt make feeling better cause ull just think ur pregnant alot. and if so no worries plan b (morning after pills) is a big help. but must be taken in the first 72 hours. get be smart think smart and be safe..
goodluck
but as for future reference, if you want to stay a virgin and still have without worries have him use a condom or just stick to fingering no touching of pelvic areas to avoid worries. also if you do in fact start having sex go ahead and use spermicidal condoms because they are designed to kill off sperm so just in case the condom rips or you think it does it eases your mind alittle less. and dont do unprotected it doesnt make feeling better cause ull just think ur pregnant alot. and if so no worries plan b (morning after pills) is a big help. but must be taken in the first 72 hours. get be smart think smart and be safe..
goodluck