My girlfriend and I had sex 21 days ago and I cummed in her (I had a condom on but I guess it may not have worked). She thought that she might be pregnant (just from different symptoms) and ended up taking a pregnancy test which came back positive initially and then slowly moved closer to negative. We cannot have a baby. I am going into the Navy and she is going to college. If she is pregnant what should we do? Is there a way to stop this baby without abortion at this point in time? Is abortion the only option? and at what point is it possible?