Here's some information about my boyfriend and I before I tell what happened;
- We've never had sex and have agreed to abstain from it
- I am still in highschool and he just graduated and we dont want to jepordize any chances of not having a good life
- I am in the process of changing my birth control because it gives me bad acne, horrible mood swings, and dosent improve my preiod pains or heavy flow. So im not on any birth control as of two months ago
- He has never pressured me to have sex and we have mature conversations about why its best to wait until we are ready to take that chance
Here I go...
We spent the day together and decided to go swim in his pool at his house. So I obviously had the regular bikini on and he had Underarmor compression shorts that he wears all the time at work (he is a lifeguard so they are always soaked in chlorine) under his regular swimming shorts. Basically, we started kissing and making out like we always do and he was standing up and I had my legs wrapped around him. He had a boner and I was kinda wet but I wasn't super close that I could always feel his erection on my vaginia. But we started to front grind a little and all he was doing was rubbing the front of his erection on my clit. To me all we did was play/fool around in a pool.
I am extreme anxiety about this kind of stuff but the only problem is that we do this stuff on the bed/couch all the time but I usually have soffees and a thong on too. I'm never worried about that and I dont know why im worried about this all of a sudden if its the same thing.
Another few bits of info: his pool had extremely high chlorine levels in it, so bad that it stung both of our eyes and gave me a rash.. so if he was to precum/cum at all, it wouldnt have gotten past his compression shorts and even if it did it would have been killed by the cold pool water and chemicals in the pool.
He's been trying to reassure me and I really don't want to be worrying about this stuff. If anyone could give me some more information to make me feel better, that would be great. I'm not dumb or undereducated at all, I just have a huge fear of being pregnant.
Thanks :)
Repeat after me: YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT FROM DRY HUMPING ESPECIALLY IN A CHLORINE FILLED POOL
YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT FROM DRY HUMPING ESPECIALLY IN A CHLORINE FILLED POOL
YOU CANNOT GET PREGNANT FROM DRY HUMPING ESPECIALLY IN A CHLORINE FILLED POOL
You need sperm ejaculated into your vagina to get pregnant, in other words you need to have sex and not be a virgin.
It just shouldn't be in your head in the first place. First off, clothes act as a barrier for sperm cannot pass through those to get into your vagina thus impregnate you; if it could imagine how many more babies/people there would be in the world and secondly, sperm cannot survive in chlorine, period. You might want to do some reading on how babies are conceived this summer, it actually takes quite a lot and a perfect window of opportunity with your cervix to get pregnant. Sex education is the number one thing that teenagers are lacking these days and with how much social media is showing out there that is WRONG you really need to educate yourself, so important. Hope this helps
Literally, we have done the exact same thing on the couch or bed and I've never worried about it like this. Im to the point where im making myself sick about it...the only difference was that water was involved and if anything this should have helped the issue of preventing pregnancy.. and this helps a lot. But its still in the back of my mind. Whens the earliest that I can take a pregnancy test to ease my mind?
He has a pool at his house and you were wearing bathing suits? How quaint.
I agree with Liz, it is impossible!!!
I was in a similar situation many years ago where we couldn't take a chance on her getting pregnant. I never got my penis anywhere near her vagina but we sure pleasured each other with our hands and my mouth. We dry humped early on but that was no where near as good as hands and mouth, so we gave that up.
Rubbing a penis on your clit is nowhere close to as good as using fingers and a tongue.
Being naked in a pool and just holding tight for all the skin to skin contact you can get is really pleasurable with someone you love without any kind of simulated sex at all. The skin to skin contact just feels great.
Sounds like you are really being smart, enjoy yourselves.
Don't waste your money on a pregnancy test honestly. But you would want to wait until you missed your next period.
You got it!
But I’m late for my period (4days late)
And I’ve been researching it can also be caused by stress but I’m stressing because like you never know ?
Please put me at ease ?!