hi,I am 28 years old,going to marry next month.My problem is that whenever i talked to my fiancy even in a proper and good manner,I got ejection.I really never did masturbulation or other related thing.Please advice me what to do to ovetcome this problem.I really afraid due to this problem.There is any problem in my marriage life due to this.Plz advice me.
Sounds like you got a little premature erection going on there. Either that, or the sound of your fiance's voice gets you turned on. COOL 8)
Maybe it wouldn't hurt you to masterbate a little bit before the big day. :$
Just so you get the jist of how every thing works down there.
It's one thing to get an erection, it's another thing to be able to maintain it. Thats why i suggest that you kind of take the matter in hand and see how it works. (sorry for the play on words)
It is fine to see how your body works and masterbation is healthy and normal.
Sounds to me like your a virgin. Nothing wrong with that. Better a reason to check your self out, in private, before the big day. Have fun... :-D
Maybe it wouldn't hurt you to masterbate a little bit before the big day. :$
Just so you get the jist of how every thing works down there.
It's one thing to get an erection, it's another thing to be able to maintain it. Thats why i suggest that you kind of take the matter in hand and see how it works. (sorry for the play on words)
It is fine to see how your body works and masterbation is healthy and normal.
Sounds to me like your a virgin. Nothing wrong with that. Better a reason to check your self out, in private, before the big day. Have fun... :-D
I took Anwar's comment to be that when trying to speak up about sex to their future spouse, that they were rejected. And that the fear is that they won't discuss it.
Perhaps I am wrong, but working on this assumption, I would try again to discuss your expectations with your intended... and if the communication is still lacking, by all means get to a counselor BEFORE you are married. If they won't go with you, go yourself. Once your future spouse sees how committed you are with working this out together before it's too late, they are likely to go with you. But in this day and age, I would urge you to discuss sex with your spouse before you get hitched together.
Now, if Anwar is concerned that every conversation produces an erection in him, that's somewhat normal, as he is experiencing anticipation of gaining a wife and sexual partner. Anticipation, whether conscious or subconsciously arousing, is alright.
In his culture, it may not be socially acceptable to admit to the arousal, but once married and free to act upon their excitment, I suspect the erections will be less frequent. And given familiarity and the stress of daily married life, there will be appropriate times for sexual arousal, and fewer inappropriate times.
Perhaps I am wrong, but working on this assumption, I would try again to discuss your expectations with your intended... and if the communication is still lacking, by all means get to a counselor BEFORE you are married. If they won't go with you, go yourself. Once your future spouse sees how committed you are with working this out together before it's too late, they are likely to go with you. But in this day and age, I would urge you to discuss sex with your spouse before you get hitched together.
Now, if Anwar is concerned that every conversation produces an erection in him, that's somewhat normal, as he is experiencing anticipation of gaining a wife and sexual partner. Anticipation, whether conscious or subconsciously arousing, is alright.
In his culture, it may not be socially acceptable to admit to the arousal, but once married and free to act upon their excitment, I suspect the erections will be less frequent. And given familiarity and the stress of daily married life, there will be appropriate times for sexual arousal, and fewer inappropriate times.