This is not "the problem" discussed here, I think. You "can get ready for more just after a few ninutes", women with premature orgasm don´t enjoy the moment really, because it is to fast, and they don´t to be able to continue!
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I'm not sure if my problem fits in here.. I used to be able to orgasm fully... the slow build when the pleasure starts to intensify leading up to full orgasm. However, for about 8 years the orgasm completes in the lower end of pleasure - party over before it's even started, This leaves me frustrated as I know there should be more.
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some times i wonder if my ex had this problem or if she faked. not too sure.it was ussually consitant with the type activity. usssually within 15 to 20 minutes.i would be able to climax if it lasted alittle longer with the intensity. id be so close but she almost allways finished before me.
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I have also ! Could you please tell me the medical name for this condition so that I can do more research?
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I thought I was the only one - girls have it too! Just wanted to know all raunchyness aside, wouldn't that work... 2 people with PE?
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Well, sadly it's just as basically called "Premature Orgasm" in women. And in essence, quite similar to male issue. And unfortunately there's no real/fast solution.
So the typical suggestions are these :
- Masterbate (A few hours) before sex so you would not be so sensitive (And excited) before coitus.
- Know the positions that is your "weakness" so to speak and avoid them. (Avoid very stimulating positions.)
- The "squeeze technique". Pay close attention to your arousal pattern and learn to recognize how they felt shortly before their "point of no return". Best done with cooperation with your partner.
- Practice kegel exercises could help.
- And worse solution...... Leave it be, sometimes, it gets solved by itself, either due to time and experience.
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My missus is on a hair trigger and when she's done, she's done. So it's DIY for me. . . .
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I have had the same issue pretty much for a long time. Always been a nymph, accepting of that part of myself. Premature orgasm is a thing for me and it has been in my adolescent years to today. So, more than a decade. I know my body well enough to know what stimulates me and what to avoid in order to "last longer" with my partner. I enjoy all kinds of stimulation. Oral, fingers, breast stimulation, sucking, and finally intercourse. So switching positions a lot has helped my partner and I last longer. He prefers certain positions longer than I can handle them (trying to avoid premature orgasm over here, man) So it's usually up to me to switch the position since I am prone to climaxing early, and like most women who commented here, if I climax early, I'm not in the mood and can easily turn over and fall asleep. Luckily, my partner is verrrrry patient with me and knows this is still something I am practicing with and getting to know my sexual self. A lot of output on my part helps my partner climax when I want him to. Like, dressing in something nice for him, dancing for him, figuring out what he likes. It's not always easy to know your man, ladies. So by me getting to know him helps, as he is more particular on what he likes, and we'll I enjoy everything. Also, yes sometimes if I premature orgasm, I can wait for an hour (if he wants to eat or do something) and then we can continue after 15-30mins if we can do it. I found that too much displays in my past relationships of unsatisfactory emotions and behavior didn't help me or the overall relationship. It definitely helps to have a supportive and thrilled to learn with you kind of partner.
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