Yeah i need some seriuos help..I'm 15 and i have a girl friend and when me and her talk about having sex together i can't get hard. I love my girl friend so much but i can't get hard as much as i use to before we got together, and when i do it goes away as fast as i get it, and yes i do masterbate to, but now that im with a girl for the first time in 2 years it don't feel right when ever i do masterbate (plus it don't feel as hard). Please if anyone can help i would be greatful, I'd like to be able to get hard and be able to maintain it like I use to. PLEASE HELP.
Hi,
One of the most common reasons for a guy to have trouble getting or keeping an erection is anxiety. You're probably nervous about having sex with her and are aware of what can happen. You also probably don't want to disappoint her, performance wise that is.
Will this be your first time? Hers?
You need to relax. I know, it's easy to say. Get comfortable with her and her with you. Just relax, take your time, explore each other and let what happens happen. Don't rush it. Don't expect fireworks the first time. Just take your time.
You'll be OK.
Be sure to use a condom. It will help you last a little longer and also help you mentally by eliminating the pregnancy fear.
Hope that helps.
One of the most common reasons for a guy to have trouble getting or keeping an erection is anxiety. You're probably nervous about having sex with her and are aware of what can happen. You also probably don't want to disappoint her, performance wise that is.
Will this be your first time? Hers?
You need to relax. I know, it's easy to say. Get comfortable with her and her with you. Just relax, take your time, explore each other and let what happens happen. Don't rush it. Don't expect fireworks the first time. Just take your time.
You'll be OK.
Be sure to use a condom. It will help you last a little longer and also help you mentally by eliminating the pregnancy fear.
Hope that helps.
Hi there,
I also had this problem before, I couldn't keep my erection because of different stressful thoughts. My doctor advised me to take "Excel - Herbal Viagra" It's a 100% natural product that increases the body`s ability to achieve and maintain an erection during sexual stimulation. I was on this medication for some months now and I'm very happy with the result. You should try it!
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I also had this problem before, I couldn't keep my erection because of different stressful thoughts. My doctor advised me to take "Excel - Herbal Viagra" It's a 100% natural product that increases the body`s ability to achieve and maintain an erection during sexual stimulation. I was on this medication for some months now and I'm very happy with the result. You should try it!
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Hey
I'm a 15 year old female, and my boyfriend has exactly the same problem, we had been trying to have sex for ages but he just couldn't keep a hard one long enough, then the other day i told him to relax and just enjoy the forplay and then for the first time we had amazing sex. But it wont happen straight away. You should talk to your girlfriend about it, and maybe she can do something about it.. Something that really turns my boyfriend on is being really rough with me... so if you talk your girlfriend i'm sure she'll understand and be willing to try lots of different thing to help you get an errection.. Also if you're a virgin..? You should know that it will really hurt you the first time and it might not work out the way it should because the pain might take over the nice feelings.. but just tell her it hurts and she'll understand.. then you can try again later :-D after a while it doesn't hurt anymore so my boyfriend says :-D
hope this is helpful :-D
Astra x
I'm a 15 year old female, and my boyfriend has exactly the same problem, we had been trying to have sex for ages but he just couldn't keep a hard one long enough, then the other day i told him to relax and just enjoy the forplay and then for the first time we had amazing sex. But it wont happen straight away. You should talk to your girlfriend about it, and maybe she can do something about it.. Something that really turns my boyfriend on is being really rough with me... so if you talk your girlfriend i'm sure she'll understand and be willing to try lots of different thing to help you get an errection.. Also if you're a virgin..? You should know that it will really hurt you the first time and it might not work out the way it should because the pain might take over the nice feelings.. but just tell her it hurts and she'll understand.. then you can try again later :-D after a while it doesn't hurt anymore so my boyfriend says :-D
hope this is helpful :-D
Astra x