I have always has protected sex. I was raped when i was 17 but i knew the guy and knew he didnt have any std's. I had sex with one of my friends earlier this year and we used a condom of course. I have always tried to shave down there fast, but hey i admit big time i was foolish with lil water and a razor... i would always end up with severe red bumps. the next day it itched like crazy, but i knew that it was cause the hair was growing back.
The red bumps went away a few days later after i stoped scratching. Lately though he has been on a kick of asking me,"When was the last time u got checked for std's?" i have always used condoms.. and now he has me so freaked out i cant even sleep. I have always checked myself out and never saw any bumps, rashes etc. i do have the occasional chaif(rash) but it only comes when my pants rub too much on my legs. I also noticed that i had a purplish hard bump near my lip. It didnt hurt or anything. it was big but 3 days later it went away.. no puss, fluid, broken skin or pain. I learned from a friend it was a ingrown hair(which relieved me). What is tiny bit worrying me now is i have what looks like 2 small bumps(1 red 1 purplish with a white head) on/near one of my lips. Doesnt hurt or anything.. but i do see some hair trying to poke thru. The red bump has 2 hairs trying to push thru and the purplish 1 has only one. I am wondering if its more ingrown hairs? herpes(oh gawd plz no), or something else? I am going to a free clinic on june 5 for a blood test only cause my mom is highly embarrassing. She wants to to into the gyno with me. I am 26 yrs old and thats a tiny bit embarrassing and there is somethings left not to be heard by her ears. PLZ i need your advice. i think my friend(sson to be ex when i find out the results) has me imagning that i do have something and i am stressing out enough i am making stuff appear. Please put my stressed out self to rest if u can...
Thank you all so much in advance
P.S. when my ex bf used to shave me, i never had ingrown hairs(but i guess cause he could see better and took his time).
The red bumps went away a few days later after i stoped scratching. Lately though he has been on a kick of asking me,"When was the last time u got checked for std's?" i have always used condoms.. and now he has me so freaked out i cant even sleep. I have always checked myself out and never saw any bumps, rashes etc. i do have the occasional chaif(rash) but it only comes when my pants rub too much on my legs. I also noticed that i had a purplish hard bump near my lip. It didnt hurt or anything. it was big but 3 days later it went away.. no puss, fluid, broken skin or pain. I learned from a friend it was a ingrown hair(which relieved me). What is tiny bit worrying me now is i have what looks like 2 small bumps(1 red 1 purplish with a white head) on/near one of my lips. Doesnt hurt or anything.. but i do see some hair trying to poke thru. The red bump has 2 hairs trying to push thru and the purplish 1 has only one. I am wondering if its more ingrown hairs? herpes(oh gawd plz no), or something else? I am going to a free clinic on june 5 for a blood test only cause my mom is highly embarrassing. She wants to to into the gyno with me. I am 26 yrs old and thats a tiny bit embarrassing and there is somethings left not to be heard by her ears. PLZ i need your advice. i think my friend(sson to be ex when i find out the results) has me imagning that i do have something and i am stressing out enough i am making stuff appear. Please put my stressed out self to rest if u can...
Thank you all so much in advance
P.S. when my ex bf used to shave me, i never had ingrown hairs(but i guess cause he could see better and took his time).
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Yeah, your 26, go to the clinic by yourself. take a deep breath, say a prayer for a healthy body, condom use is good, but admitidly not 100% effective. having a partner shave is usually better. ingrown hairs are common, just watch for them the next day and break the skin open over the hair before it becomes huge. Hope all goes well. Did I mention "say a prayer"?
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