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hello... i am 19 year old boy. i had sex with a girl 3 days before the date of her periods. now even after 6 days she has not started periods.is she pregnent.. help mee soon. wat should i do.....
hey there...so what day did you guys have sex? because a pregnancy test can show up 5 days before a missed period. so you will have to wait till about 5 days before hand to test or she can go to a clinic and get a blood test done. was that her first time? because sometimes that can mess things up. give me so more information about this..and good luck
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yeah this was our first time.... now she is at 7th day after her normal date of periods.. we are very afraid..

can u explain wat is this pregnency test and blood test... if she is pregnent i think only way will bw abortion... we are only at age of 19.. so is there any problems in abortion... i mean is it permitted leagally...

if i do blood test now will i be able to knw whether she is pregnent or not..
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I'm not a pro choice advocat, but dude, be a man and take responsibility for your actions. I was sixteen when I got pregnant, and know I am happliy married with a wonderful 5 year old. People make it seem harder than it is. Yes, it's A LOT of work, and you give up a lot, but the reward is greater. And if you don't have the means to support a baby, think about an open adoption. But really think hard before you choose to abort.
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I am too not a pro choice advocat..I would never abort a child..you should never do that....only in a medicial way and if she has to. i don't mean to be so rude but you say you are 19..if you are then you should be able to take on this baby if she is. and yes you can have it done and not get into trouble but you and her will regrat this..I got pregnant at the age of 19 and my husband and I are so happy about it..If you think your family will judge you if you keep the baby they probable will but they might judge you if you abort it or they might be mad for a while and get over it when they see the new little baby.

I know you guys are so young but that don't mean you can have sex and then abort the baby if she is pregnant. It is hard raising a child but you will be so happy that he or she is yours and it is so much better then anything in this world. I am 24 and I am working on having my 3rd baby with my husband.

So is this what you want to get ride of the baby? or is it both of you? If you plan on staying with her and you love her then keep this baby and enjoy the moment because you might not be able to have kids in the future. You do need to be a man and she does need to be a women and stand up to the plat of having a family.

If she is then you both have this baby and give it up after that way he or she will have a baby..some people would love to have a baby...they are so many people out there that can not get pregnant and are praying everyday to have one. So if she is go threw this and just give the baby up.

And yes go to a clinic and get a blood test done any clinic will do they are usually the best. And you can go to a drug store or walmart to get a pregnancy test. since she is 7 days over..you could test with the pregnancy test and it will show up.

Please thank about this very carefully and good luck and keep us posted. Like again I am not trying to be rude or mean. I just don't believe in abortions.
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