I am a 25 year old girl. I have had two doctors tell me it would be almost impossible to get pregnant without medical intervention. I never used anything with my first bf. We started dating when I was 17, lost my virginity to him at 18. Started dating girls at 19. Completely thought I was lesbian. I met this younger guy. He was so sweet, etc. etc. we were just friends, but he kept trying to pursue a romantic relationship and I guess he wore me down.. Anyway, we've been dating only a few months, but it felt right with him and we ended up making love... like all day. He was bigger than my first. I was VERY sore. I had a little blood afterwards. We didn't use anything and I feel stupid for doing that now so please no comments pertaining to that. I know I should have. He came inside of me a few times, but I got up really quickly and washed it out with cold water and soap. It won't happen again without protection. We just weren't planning on it, I guess. The question is this... I had some blood yesterday and I thought it was my period coming, but it didn't. Then, I thought perhaps left over blood from when we were together, but after googling.... I am freaking out!!! I read about impantation bleeding, etc. I also read about how having sex for the first time in a long time can delay your period though and if it is delayed, would I have a spot of brown blood like that? Please.. has anything like this happened to anyone? I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. My period isn't due for another two days and I don't think I can wait.
Hi D_Loves,
Why can you not get pregnant without medical intervention? Do you not ovulate or have a period? Do you have PCOS?
Anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of pregnancy occurring, of course depending on the medical reason for you.
My husband that I have been with for over 12 years is 3.5 years younger than me, I thought the first as you, weird not wanting to date him but we came best friends first. I absolutely love him with all my heart and can't imagine life without him. Love knows no age! Has no boundaries.
I believe if you do get pregnant now it's a sign. That, yes you can get pregnant and it was meant to be.
Message back if you need more answers or have more questions.
Hope this helps
I have numerous issues down there.. I have an extremely t-shaped uterus and tilted back, extremely thick uterine lining, and they are not sure if this caused my inability to get pregnant or not, but I have large pre-cancerous complex cysts on my ovaries. I'm very shy, but I feel like a pedo even though he was the one who controlling everything. I guess I didn't think he would be so pushy and know so much and I think that's the main reason I didn't think of birth control. I didn't think I'd need it!
I am really scared of what my fam would think. They are extremely strict and if they found out I am pregnant, they would KILL me.... I was homeschooled my whole life which is why I guess I should know more about these things, but never had sex-ed or anything. I never even knew stuff came out of a guy until I lost my virginity at 18. So embarrassing..
To be honest, I grew up in a VERY STRICT home as well. It is actually something very basic that they forgot to give you some knowledge in, their own mistake - we all make mistakes, we're human not perfect, as you are finding out.
They won't kill you, my sister got pregnant at age 20 and thought she would be disowned and I now cannot imagine my life without my nephew. They forgive like the bible says and should forget. You need to use this as a lesson!
That is a lot of things wrong with your lady parts. It will make pregnancy hard to achieve BUT it could happen. You may need to go to the doctors to do extra testing OR just wait until your next expected period is suppose to arrive. IF you don't get your period on time then buy a home pregnancy test (you can buy this almost anywhere just stay away from the dollar store brand as mostly expired) and use your first pee of the day to test.
Do you get cramping on a regular basis when you're pregnant? I keep getting cramps in my left side like I'm going to start, but then don't.. My boobs are also swollen which is making me paranoid about being pregnant, but then I try to rationalize it away by saying it's because my period is going to start. I'm sorry to bug you. I AM freaking out though. I will pick up another pregnancy test and let you know in a couple of days.
You can get SOME cramping but not usually too much, in my experience. These symptoms like you say can be PMS related but also pregnancy.
Don't worry I understand why. Remember the best time to test.
Good luck!