my fiance is a plus size lady am of medium weight about 63Kg,what advice can u give me on better sex positions.we have only done one type,i always on top and her bellow with her legs up and for better pentration i put a pillow on her waist.thats the only thing we have been doing.last tym we tried another position she couldnt and ended up apologising that she has failed me i consoled her and i dont think will try again another,i love her so much that i dont want her to be feeling bad or inadequate when it comes to sex.advice please.
induna, there's a couple positions that come to mind that would allow deeper penetration with a plus size woman. First, make sure she very warmed up using foreplay either by fingering or oral (my fav). The longer you spend time in foreplay the more satisfying the sex imo.
Now have her lie on her side and, with you facing her, straddle her lower leg. Have her place the other leg either up high on your shoulder (depends on her flexibility here), bent and curled around your body or drawn up closer to her body. In any of these positions, her upper leg needs to be elevated, so that you can penetrate her. You will find that your knees need to be near her waist to get a deep penetration. You can also help support her upper leg during your thrusting motions. You can experiment with which leg positions work best for the two of you. From this position, clitoral or anal stimulation can be added using either your fingers or a vibrator.
Another possible position depending on her body shape is her on top. (This may not work well if her thighs are large. You just need to experiment.) I don't have a particularly long-sized penis. So to get more penetration, I use a either a pillow turned length-wise or folded in half under me (placed under my hips) or both my fists under my buttocks (fists turned with thumbs up, not down; it's more comfortable that way and gives you slightly more elevation.) This additional 3" or so of elevation allows her to straddle your body better and raises your penis higher for a deeper penetration.
Pick one, Thrust to completion, Rest, Repeat :-)