Hey, I was wondering if anyone could help me, or if anyone was having the same problem. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 7 or 8 months now. Sex doesn't hurt and sometimes it feels good, but It never feels god enough for me to orgasm. We've tried so many different positions, but nothing seems to work. Anyone have any ideas as to what's wrong with me?
Thank you!
Thank you!
hey, i have the same promble to n i dnt no whats the promble either i tried letting him go deeper but it still dosent work n are u talking about he cnt get u to cum
Yea me too. Yea I am. I feel really bad for him, cause he thinks he's bad in bed, but i don't know what to say to him. I'm really confused. :/
thats how i feel to n i wnt it ti happen so bad i posed a topic on unprotected sex can u read it n reply to it
Hi i was having the same problem with my husband. And what i did was i got on top and instead of bouncing up and down i let it stay deep inside of me and i grinded back and forth. And trust me this works alot and it feels great!!!!
im going to try that but does it hert n how deep did u let him stay
I think teenmom has a great suggestion there. In that position YOU get to control everything. How deep, how fast, what type of motion and the angle. Make him lie still while you do all the work. If he starts to move up and down it destroys your rhythm. Tie his a** down if you have to. :-S You can make his penis rub your G spot by leaning back a little, which should do wonders for your pleasure, or turn around with your back to him so he can fondle your boobs. He may love it, I do, it's a real turn on for me.
You didn't mention anything about foreplay.
I like to begin by just fondling my wife's outer lips and everything in between. I place two fingers together at the top of her vulva and slowly slide them down, spreading them to go along the sides of her outer lips and back up. If I'm laying beside her when I do it I can rub her pubic bone and clitoris with the palm of my hand as I do it. The clitoris is shaped like a tooth with roots that go down along the sides and is about as long as a penis. So there's plenty of stuff there for him to massage that should get you going. Also, inserting a finger or something smooth and well lubed, in your anus will add to your stimulation --- if you don't find it a mental turn off. :-)
Of course your boobs probably need a lot of attention too. I imagine you already know what you like there. Some girls like to have them squeezed hard, or the nipples pinched hard. My wife doesn't like either. Just me licking and sucking them.
Have you tried a lot of oral at the beginning? On you o.O not him.
Does he have a foreskin? If so, on insertion, it should be positioned so that his penis slides out of it as it rolls onto the sides of your vagina protecting the wall from friction with the head of his penis. In other words don't pull it back first so he's inserting the bare head for the full distance. After he's inside you, his penis should be sliding in and out of his foreskin inside your vagina, not rubbing on the walls.
I don't believe there are any bad lovers. It's all about working together and trying different ways to discover what works best for both of you.
Hope this helps :-)
You didn't mention anything about foreplay.
I like to begin by just fondling my wife's outer lips and everything in between. I place two fingers together at the top of her vulva and slowly slide them down, spreading them to go along the sides of her outer lips and back up. If I'm laying beside her when I do it I can rub her pubic bone and clitoris with the palm of my hand as I do it. The clitoris is shaped like a tooth with roots that go down along the sides and is about as long as a penis. So there's plenty of stuff there for him to massage that should get you going. Also, inserting a finger or something smooth and well lubed, in your anus will add to your stimulation --- if you don't find it a mental turn off. :-)
Of course your boobs probably need a lot of attention too. I imagine you already know what you like there. Some girls like to have them squeezed hard, or the nipples pinched hard. My wife doesn't like either. Just me licking and sucking them.
Have you tried a lot of oral at the beginning? On you o.O not him.
Does he have a foreskin? If so, on insertion, it should be positioned so that his penis slides out of it as it rolls onto the sides of your vagina protecting the wall from friction with the head of his penis. In other words don't pull it back first so he's inserting the bare head for the full distance. After he's inside you, his penis should be sliding in and out of his foreskin inside your vagina, not rubbing on the walls.
I don't believe there are any bad lovers. It's all about working together and trying different ways to discover what works best for both of you.
Hope this helps :-)
thank you and my boyfriend likes to be in control n i dnt like riding lol but i have before and imscared its going to hert me or i wnt be good at it
Honey if you want to be on top do it dont be scared if its hurts sex comes with pain if it didnt then it wouldnt be sex lol!!!!!! And if your worried about "not doing it right" DONT! Because if it feels good to you which trust me it will then forget about him. You be the one in control and dont worry if he wants to be the butch. Women have to be the butch sometimes and the man just has to suck it up and be the b***h for one night. And if you have too tie his ass down that is what headboards and foot boards are trully made for!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes its simple :-P
Have Him try To Make You Orgasm Thro Oral Sex
hey me326! look i'm not an expert
but i had a problem not similar to this one but yeah i been having sex with my boyfriend about 4 months ago,
but i think it might be mentally too you need to relax first and think that you are going to enjoy it you know
also foreplay! helps a-lot dont just go straigh into it, you can also be creative we tried it with my boyfriend
we play for a big while and in my mind all i had was that it was going to feel good.
my problem was that in my mind all i had was that it was going to hurt to while doing it i couldnt enjoyed it, it was too much
pain. but i started realizing that it was mentally not that i had a problem how i thought. just tried to do it with love and get into the momment. good luck! :-D
but i had a problem not similar to this one but yeah i been having sex with my boyfriend about 4 months ago,
but i think it might be mentally too you need to relax first and think that you are going to enjoy it you know
also foreplay! helps a-lot dont just go straigh into it, you can also be creative we tried it with my boyfriend
we play for a big while and in my mind all i had was that it was going to feel good.
my problem was that in my mind all i had was that it was going to hurt to while doing it i couldnt enjoyed it, it was too much
pain. but i started realizing that it was mentally not that i had a problem how i thought. just tried to do it with love and get into the momment. good luck! :-D
i never had that problem before but maybe if you didnt try it before try having oral sex my boy friend does that for me and it makes you finish multiple times also dont focus on it to hard when you have sex thinking to much takes away the pleasure sometimes its like if you get a mesage you dont try to think about trying to make it feel good usually you just relaxe and feel the mesage try to do the same when it comes to sex and if your partner isnt doing something right try to tell them how you want them to do it using only one or two words like if you want them to go faster or slower or what ever just say it they do listen to you
ha ha lol kkkkk
just try it and you will see if he does it right for real. but if he does not then you should try to tell him how you want him to do it. if you do that then you will know why or if that does not work then ican give you another suggestion