Hi I’m going to be 40 this year. I was in a 20 year relationship ( I came 1x “ I think”) every time I touch myself I instantly go completely dry ( normally I’m dripping wet when my bf touches me), he is way bigger then my ex and satisfisy me mind body and spirit. BUT I CANT CUM!!! And now he’s getting a complex ( a is it him thing) even though I explained over n over. I had childhood trauma and a c**p life. I have been to therapy ( years ago) and they said I stuff everything since childhood and until I deal with that I’ll have none. I refuse to believe this. Please any help!!i have FINALLY found the man of my dreams and want this to work