I have had a steady relationship with one person only. We have been sexually active for a while now. At first it used to hurt but now it doesnt hurt much. He has been my first and only partner but I have never bled.
At first I didnt give it much thought but recently he asked me about it. Im confused why I didnt bleed my first time or since then. Im worried. Dont even know what to think myself and far less how to explain it to him.
Please help, :-(
At first I didnt give it much thought but recently he asked me about it. Im confused why I didnt bleed my first time or since then. Im worried. Dont even know what to think myself and far less how to explain it to him.
Please help, :-(
Not all women bleed when they first have sex.
it all depends on your physical make up, the bf`s skill in handling you during foreplay, and other factors.
Usually women bleed because sex is too rough, and their hymen tears and bleeds.
but if bf arouses you properly first , so that you are wet before penetration, the hymen often just stretches , and does not bleed.
clitoral stimulation and gentle fingering can often help.
also , if you use tampons when you have your period, they can stretch and break your hymen, while you are still a virgin.
So you need not worry, everything is fine.
it all depends on your physical make up, the bf`s skill in handling you during foreplay, and other factors.
Usually women bleed because sex is too rough, and their hymen tears and bleeds.
but if bf arouses you properly first , so that you are wet before penetration, the hymen often just stretches , and does not bleed.
clitoral stimulation and gentle fingering can often help.
also , if you use tampons when you have your period, they can stretch and break your hymen, while you are still a virgin.
So you need not worry, everything is fine.
Thats a BIG relief.
This was the first time I had visited steady health. I think its really great and helps out a lot of worried and confused people. I'll make sure to join it.
Thanks.
This was the first time I had visited steady health. I think its really great and helps out a lot of worried and confused people. I'll make sure to join it.
Thanks.