she is 13 is a good thing for her to start having sex

First of all, you don't have sex for the first time just because you want to get it over and done. Second of all, there are all of two or three countries in the world where it's even lawful to have intercourse at her age, and in most places, many other kinds of sex. If her partner is over the age of consent, or worse still a legal adult, he could be looking at some very serious criminal charges. So, advise her to wait on sex until she's legal. It also is often pretty difficult for someone her age to get things like the sexual health-care she need and birth control, or abortion services or pre-natal care in the event of an accidental pregnancy, so until she's in a place and of an age where she can always get those basics when she need them, it's really best to hold off.

okay everyone is going to tell you we I think it's a good idea but I'm going to focus this post only on what you need to do if you are going to have sex since I don't think if you are committed to it anyone can talk you out of it is more important you do the following to be safe and not end up with a baby which I am sure you're both not ready for first off I take it your boyfriend is 13 that is a bit young but most boys will start to ejaculate at about that age and since you may not know when he starts to ejaculate or make sperm which is needed to make the baby you need to take protection from day one. so you need to use protection condoms are good at 13 he's penis may be a bit small so you need to make sure you choose the right size condoms his penis may look like to you even above average but at 13 his penis may not be the average for the standard condom just 5 1/2 inches it also may be smaller around the average is over an inch at 13 I doubt it is quite up to that so you need to use a small walk on his website to make sure it does not slip off second and just as important you need to use a backup form of birth i.e. the pale or what they call a cervical cap is a piece of rubber you insert into your vagina they will cover the cervix and prevent any sperm from getting in you can also get a shot they will last you about three years both the short and the pill courier to go to a doctor I don't know what state you are in in some states you have to have your parents and some you do not you can get a cervical cap over the counter at the pharmacy in some states Plan B or the morning-after pill is not a good form of birth control but if you're going to having sex on a regular basis and it is a mistake like a broken condom and you have no backup birth control Plan B is something you should think about talk to your parents tell them you are set and it is better to get birth control than to do nothing and have a baby like I said I really think you should wait to hear a lease 16 but I've seen too many people have sex with no birth control and pregnant because their parents or someone was trying to stop them rather than just kidding them the birth control in closing I guess I'm saying try to wait if you can't use birth control use will birth control and be safe
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Well giving up your virginity isn't something you just want to get over and done with. Its not like that. She should wait until she really knows that this is what she wants. Like if she even think they will last. Having sex for the first time can take a big toll on some girls. They can get very emotionaly connected and also its now a good thing. But she should wait. I think she is to young and you should help her see that. But also April O is right. There can be legal problems if he is above the age. He can get in alot of trouble. I think its better for her to wait and give it up to someone she falls in love with. I think that if she dos it now she might regret it later and you don't want that to happen. No regrets.

From what I read, she is NOT ready to have sex yet.
I probably shouldn't judge, because I myself was young my first time, but we dated for a long period of time and all that lovey dovey junk!

If she wants to do it to "get it over and done", then she obviously isn't ready, and she hasn't found the right person to have sex with.
You don't give away your virginity to be done with it. Yeah, for girls, it's not easy the first time, but when it's with someone you care about, it's not to get over and done. When it's with someone you care about, it actually means a lot.

Unless they've been together for a long period of time and are both sure of it, and don't want to "get it over with", THEN she is ready.

For now, I'd say she isn't even close.

From what I read, she doesn't even know him a lot? Correct me if I'm wrong. 13, wanting to get done with sex with a guy she barely knows... STOP HER RIGHT NOW before she makes the biggest mistake of her life!

I'm a boy by the way.