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(im a 16 year old boy)
this girl...always txts me and sends me naked pictures of her even tho i dont ask her for them..shes pretty and nice and were good friends but i love her best friend and i think she likes me too
this girl that txts me always says things like you should come over and we can sleep and fool around
she knows i want to save my virginity and she wants me to finger her and i just dont think i can do this
Let her know how you feel. Tell her (in a not-so-harsh way) that you don't want to lose your virginity to her, and what not. She doesn't sound like she's going to leave you alone unless you let her know how you feel.
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You can tell her straight up "no thanks", or, "i really like you and all, but"...
Good for you and your gentlemanly attitude, it's nice to know that there are still guys like you out there.
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Its nice to be one of those guys, but we tend to get walked all over because of it. Its all good though. Guys like us will find someone worthy of our love and respect, and hopefully receive it as well.
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From what you have shared, it sounds like this girl already knows the score and is either trying to break you two apart, or erode your resolve.

To my mind, she sounds like trouble. Steer clear.
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well this is sad if she is her best friend then most likely she would know if she liked you

so either she is really a w**** who wants everyone
or she is trying to make sure that you dont end up with her friend
best you jus say somethin like
"i like you, but im not interested, can you please stop sending me pictures ect."

its better to be straight up and not hesitate, because if you do then she will think if she keeps going she will get to you and have you give in.

its nice to know that theres a few guys who respect girls and dont jump all over someone at first chance
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its so rare to find guys like you.
usually most guys can't resist and do it!

anyways...

i think you should gently let her down and say "no, I'm not interested in you like that". and if that doesn't work, sometimes you gotta be harsh and lay down the rules...
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Yes totally! Still there are guys like him, I'm a 20yr old guy waiting for that really special girl, I won't give it to any girl just because she want to but some foreplay and making out I think it's not harmful to anyone BUT it leads us, Men to fall directly where we don't want to.
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