Should I ask her to do it again

Hi Zoe,

The fact you preface your activity with "I have a problem" indicates you have reservations about what you have done despite the pleasure derived from it. Previously you have questioned whether your interest in lesbian activity makes you a lesbian or not.

The question is whether your moral stance allows it. If it doesn't, you should not practice it. Same-sex activity is spoken against in the Bible, and that needs to be considered. The fact that something is enjoyable is seen by many as justification for engaging in it. However, that is never moral justification. Most activities that are regarded as wrong are enjoyable, otherwise they would not be practised so much.

Fuelling any desire through pornography is bound to distort perception, and you have previously indicated that you do watch porn. Porn is dangerous, and that is why it is age-limited. I can fully understand the effect on you of your activity; that is natural, but does not make it right.

My advice is not to do it again, and not to fuel the desire, but you must make your own mind up, and determine to do what you consider to be right and appropriate. Never engage in any activity you don't believe is right. But that is not usually the easy path to take.

I hope this helps.

I have similar sitation. I was doing sleepover at bff house. Her dad was gone an only her mom was home. After her mom went to bed she locked her bedroom door and sayed she wanna be gay an she kissed me on my lips. I liked it so we did it some more. Then she sayed to take of our clothes. She kissed me on mouth again an rubbed my cookie. I liked it. Then she pushed her finger in an out of my cookie. I liked that better cause it made my cookie feel gud. We did that kissing and finger stuff to each other more times.an the next night too but her mom caught us. But she don't get mad. She sayed she jus want us to be happy an kissed an hugged us both. I liked that so I kissed an hugged her more.. I did more sleepovers wit friend an more kissing an fingerin. An I liked it but I wanna do it wit her mom some more too. But now I'm afraid my mom will find out an she will be really mad. But I don't think I wanna stop doin gay stuff cause it feels so gud an I like doin it so much.

Hi, my name is Peggy an I jus had bff Gaile over for sleep over. My mom is divorced from my dad an was spending weekend wit one her boyfriends. We was in bed talking bout our boyfriends an kissing an feeling up by them. To show how they did it we kissed an feeled up each other. Both of us agreed that we done it better than boyfriends done it. Gaile sed that to find out if we really liked doin each other better than boyfriends we should try doin it without no clothes on. So we tooked our clothes off an started kissing an rubbing each other. Things got really hot an intense. Specially when Gaile's kissed moved down my body towards my puss. When I feeled her hot breath blown thru my pubes I was on fire don there an I spread my legs wider without even thinking bout it.. Finally when she liked an sucked my puss I exploded in most intense pleasure ever so much I almost passed out. I was breathing heavy an had to catch breath before I started licking an kissing Gaile's puss. Soes she Obama's intense like I done. Both Gaile an I agree that it was kuch better than when boyfriends poked their peanuses intake us. Gaile an I had lots more sleepovers until she went to college. We weren't no lesbens! We was jus comparing how boyfriends loved us up!