You are not confused. You know exactly what you should do - NOTHING.
Unfortunately there is a double standard out there. Disregard the peer pressure.
Her idea so as not to use protection is also absurd. You're right, you don't need a child and neither of you can support one now.
Dazed, I'm proud of you for standing your ground. Unfortunately the only way out of this may cost you a girl friend. You will find that there are girls out there that do respect your beliefs and will wait.
Stand your ground, good luck.
She broke up with me, in front of everyone.And only one girl in my class agrees what i did was right, and i actually like her, and now they're troubling her too.
I mean why are people my age so dumb and immature?NOT that i want to sound condescending, but i mean no one here knows how a teenage pregnancy could ruin a life.For the father, who conveniently takes the fall, and ofcourse the mother.I do not want to bring someone in the world for whom i won't be able to care.My kid deserves a better future than being a high school mistake.
You have perfectly valid reasons for not wanting to have sex. Obviously you respect yourself and the girl. Not so the ones ridiculing you.
Don't ever feel that you have to do something to keep a friend. Real friends won't pressure you to do those things that you don't want to do whether it be smoking, sex, or drugs.
Good luck. I'm proud of you.
Hey buddy.
Look it is real simple. Sex is an act that two people do out of love. Yes, I know there are millions out there that do it just for fun. But to get the full on feeling that sex is intended for you have to really love the other person. I faced the same problem that you are. I am a senior in High School and have been with my GF for two and a half years now. At first she was the one wanting to have sex. But I wasn’t ready. I was worried that I would mess up and get her pregnant. I didn’t want to tell her because I was afraid I would make her feel like I didn’t want to or I didn’t love her. We would try and I would fail miserably. I couldn’t stay hard and it was a mess. Finally, she came up to me and said “look I know what’s going on. You are not ready for sex and I respect that. You should have just been honest and tell me. Not hide it.” After that I felt so dumb because all this time I thought she would take it the wrong way if I told her but in reality she didn’t. Just be honest. Tell her you are not ready. And you seem like a smart young man to realize that this may cause an unwanted pregnancy if you have sex without protection. But my two cents is just tell her how you feel. Tell her you are not ready. Tell her you rather wait so when you are it is more enjoyable. And if she brake up with you because you told her then she wasn’t worth your time.
Take care
KLS 15