hey im 13 and i've been masterbateing sine i was 11. and ive beed wondering if i should tell my mom. i mean if i do she might get mad. or she wont and get me a vibrator. i've tryed the electic tooth brush, fingers, hair brush. ? :$ please give advice!
I dont think there is any need to tell your mom you masturbate, it is perfectly normal to want to explore your body. She probably would not buy yu a vibrator anyway. Be careful what you are using to masturbate with, as you dont want to cut yourself on any thing sharp, and be careful that what you are using is clean, probably fingers are the best
Dont worry you are normal
Dont worry you are normal
I agree fingers are always best personaly i think your still young for a vibrater . but it is great when you rub and slide at the same time you dont need any objects its that good
I have been masterbating since i was 13 i think and well im 16 now im sure my mum knows i masterbate its normal to and she wouldnt be mad hun its normal and theres nothing to be angry about your just a normal girl that has started feelin sexual its normal xxxx
I have been masterbating since i was 13 i think and well im 16 now im sure my mum knows i masterbate its normal to and she wouldnt be mad hun its normal and theres nothing to be angry about your just a normal girl that has started feelin sexual its normal xxxx
ive been wondering if i should talk to my mom about it too. but i dont think that im going to because i dont want it to be awkward or weird between us. i know she wouldnt get mad, but still.
I wouldn't tell her. In my opinion it's a personal thing and she probably assumes you do it (or will do it) anyways. Wait until you are old enough to buy a vibrator- until then, use the tub (water pressure!) or just your fingers.
ok. thanks. ya, the only problem about using my fingers is that i hav nails. i go and get them done all the time and so they r long and i am afraid that i will hurt myself if i use my fingers. idk wat to do. i wish we wer old enough to buy a vibrator! damn! >:(
hi ima 14 year old boy and dint think girl masterbated like you like sorta alot some boys boys i masterbate 2 a week i hate it its not normal
I don't know your mother but you say your 13 and I really wouldn't be ready to be told that by a girl of your age. You should be honest with your parents though, I doubt she'll get you a vibrater or start telling you stories of her first experience after all this isn't your first bra we're talking about. Perhaps your mum might advise a trip to your GP just to let you know what's safe. An electric tooth brush isn't a good idea and neither is anything that isn't designed to go inside your vagina. If you'd like a vibrater then this is also a conversation you'll have to have with 'MUM'. I'm sure she'll comprimise if she knows what you've been using up to this point. I suppose there's no going back now after all you started at 11, 3 years ago and I doubt it's a fase. I would say you are too young but your family knows you. It's brave you are even concidering talking to your family about this but try and bring it up sensibly like an adult don't say anything in the heat of the moment and prepare them for it.
Hi. Im 13 & looking for the same answer myself... Should i?? I really dont know. The other day i was sitting on the sofa and she on her laptop on the single seater and as my dad went into the kitchen, she pointed at me and it a more shocked/shouty/loud whisper she said 'You!,last night i came into your room with your hands down your pants while you were asleep!' Me: Really?! No i wasnt! Her: Yes you were! I was the one that took it out for you! I gasped and just sat there wondering whether she thought i masterbated or had a dirty dream which i didnt i think i automatically do it... See this is why i wonder... Should i tell her? She might already know and think it totally nprmal? :s
AGirl2010, if you do masturbate, your parents most likely are aware and are not concerned. Almost everybody masturbates. Masturbation is VERY normal and common, there is nothing wrong with it.
I don't tell my mom anything i only told her when i got my period im (11) and at a party she told everybody i got mine even ppl we both dont know! MY moms a stone cold B***H i tell her that the the whole family starts asking questions i mean its not like they need to know personal things me and my cousin spyed and she told every mother f*****g person there now when i say ow my stomach hurts there like ya youll get that from ur period and im like how do u know this ppl i dont know already know but my own dad doesnt know! MY parents are divorced i was little so i wasnt able to pick who to live with i wouldve picked my dad.SRRY my story didnt have to deal with anything..
I am a 13 year old male and I masturbate often in fact I did it 10 mins before I posted this anyways I think my mum knows I masturbate but I shurly wouldn't tell her I would be to embarrassed and it is private I am just waiting to see if she asked me and if not then we will never talk about it
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First of all, masturbation is not a thing your mum would like to talk about with 13yo daughter. That part of our lives is probably the most private and you should keep it to yourself. If you have some problems, pains etc. then tell your mum. Secondly, she will not buy you a vibrator. Why? It is not a thing that you actually need to masturbate. Use your fingers and don't forget to wash your hands before and after. Remember that penetrating your vagina is not the only way to do it. Many girls cum while rubbing clit, not fingering.
heyy im 13 and i masterbate almost every day . . but i only use my fingers and i wanna try something new . . IDK what else i could use ? my sister has a vibrator but im not sure if its safe to use because she might not be the only one that has used it . . i need help like ASAP :$ :-(
Vegetable in a condom? Or two fingers on gspot.