i took high blood pressure med. for quite awhile. no problems reaching orgasm. i started taking an ssri a few weeks ago. this past week i couldn't climax at all. my clitoris looks much smaller than before, to the point of barely being visible. i stopped taking both - the mind is willing, but i miss that part of my life. my husband says it doesn't matter, but he admitted it boosted his ego to have my acknowledgement of his 'talent'. will i get the size and ability back. literature i read says maybe later, maybe NEVER. what now?