so my girlfriend and i have been having sex alot, sometimes with a condom and sometimes without. and a few days ago i noticed when i was using the bathroom, that right under the head of my penis and on the shaft of it, i see red dots, and i have a little red bump to. they don't really itch and right after i take a shower there not really notice able. but after having sex they seem to be redder then before, but the redness sort of fades away after a few. right when i first noticed it, it seems like it was just another bump down there. but these seemed to be different the skin round it was like dried, so i just shrugged it off. and the next day (after having sex) they were red.
my girlfriend has had sex before but she got checked at the biggining of September and she was clean. i too had sex with someone else before i met my girlfriend. i only had sex with that other girl once and it wasnt even for that long and i was using protection (this was at the end of may in 2012). but i didnt get checked out. my friend has been having sex with her ALOT after i had sex with her and he doesnt have anything (so i think).
ive talked to my friends about my situation and they said it could be from having sex to much, it could be from the condom rubbing on my penis, it coud be just al in your head, etc. and well to be honest im flipping the hell out! :( i dont know what to do. i really want to go see a doctor about this. but just the thought of finding out i have something just kills me inside!so please if you have any idea what this is please tell me!