i am 18 years old and a virgin. my menstrual cycle has been very steady. i have noticed since long that my vaginal opening is rather small and not big enough for a penis to be inserted in.
Every vagina will fit a penis. Some may be tighter than others, but your vagina is able to stretch (like for childbirth). So no matter your size, your vagina is flexible and will accommodate an penis inserted into it. :-)
Totally agree with Lady3587, I just wanted to say "congratulations on being a virgin!!!" It takes a LOT of confidence and strength now adays to hold on to that. My second child had a 16 1/2 inch head!!!!! So hopefully that answers your question about a penis not fitting!!! XD Best of luck and health to youwq
hey thanks a lot bambi27 and lady3587 for that. i was just hoping you'll will help me out a little more. though i really still am a virgin, my boyfriend has performed fingering and stuff and it sort of hurts a lot. i had read something similiar in a news article. even though me and my boyfriend will surely not be having sex until we get married i wanna know what to do so that it does not hurt so much. i come from a very orthodox and conservative family background so approaching a family member to help me or get to a doctor to know about this is quite impossible. im indeed very grateful to have got a reply. it really means a lot. t
Hi: What you and your boyfriend have to be careful of, is when you are "fooling around" not to take it too far. I don't know if you are a virgin from your own personal choice or from your upbringing and religion/nationality! But when you are doing ANY penetration, you can take it too far, and it can become a bit rough and hurt you! If you need to keep your hymen in place - due to nationality/relgious stance. BE CAREFUL! Depending on how your boyfriend is doing it, he could break your hymen. You WILL know that though, there is usually some bleeding and pain, kind of like a cut (which it bascially is). The best way to help you relax and not be hurting, is for your boyfriend to use a lubricant on his fingers. This will help with penetration. But I AM worried that this can easily lead to things gettting out of hand. You can still stimulate each other without penetration. And depenindg on your boyfriends fingernails, hands etc. You could actually get scratched down there. And try and explain that one to your family :$ So just be careful hun, and just know YOU are in charge. And what every YOU are comfortable with is what WILL happen. Good Luck and health.
Hello again. I agree with bambi27. Sometimes it could be that you are not "wet" enough, which could cause the pain with too much friction. You could try and use a lubricant and see if that helps. Also, your boyfriend may try to use one finger to penetrate you rather than 2 or more (if he hasn't already done so). Or start with a smaller finger, like the pinkey. Like bambi27 said, it could be that your hymen is breaking. This is normal. Your boyfriend may need to penetrate you for quite awhile for you to get used to the size in your vagina. Also, make sure your boyfriend's nails are trimmed and clean! See if that helps. If not, let us know! :-)
Hello, I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. My vaginal opening is too small (about 3mm) and I have to push hard to actually see it. Is that normal?