Dear Sir,
I am 21 years old and have been engaged in sexual intercourse for the last 5 years. I have found recently though that my penis does not stay hard for the entire time as I am penetrating my girlfriend. As we switch posit ions, it tends to go soft. Also, I have a difficult time in controlling my orgasms. I cannot come at command as others; It takes a lot of time before I will feel the sensation to let go. I have masturbated a lot throughout the years, starting around 13-14 years old. I feel that if I completely stop masturbating, then I will become a better lover. Can you give me any other type of advice besides that? Do you think I need to take anything? Can you give me a diagnosis? Thanks for the help.
I am 21 years old and have been engaged in sexual intercourse for the last 5 years. I have found recently though that my penis does not stay hard for the entire time as I am penetrating my girlfriend. As we switch posit ions, it tends to go soft. Also, I have a difficult time in controlling my orgasms. I cannot come at command as others; It takes a lot of time before I will feel the sensation to let go. I have masturbated a lot throughout the years, starting around 13-14 years old. I feel that if I completely stop masturbating, then I will become a better lover. Can you give me any other type of advice besides that? Do you think I need to take anything? Can you give me a diagnosis? Thanks for the help.
I don't think it has any difference. I have mastrubated since I was 11 and I can still come at command.