My boyfriend is 27 and im 18. We have been dating for about 5-6 months now and we have been having sex for about 3 months now. Sometimes he can't stay hard during sex or we could be having sex for hours and he can't cum. He said he is afraid of getting me pregnant because we aren't at that point to be even thinking about it and i understand where is is coming from but i feel like im the reason that he can't cum not because he is worried about me getting pregnant. What do you think ?
Hi Guest,
It's not you.
Anxiety on any level can cause him to have trouble getting an erection or keeping an erection. It can also keep him from ejaculating.
Are you using birth control? It may help reduce his anxiety.
If it continues you might both consider seeing a counselor/therapist.
Good luck.