The first time i got fingered it was sore, but i didn't pass any heed to it cos it was my first time, the next time it was ok, but when my boyfriend was doing it to me it hurt again and i had to get him to stop. He was being gentle and going slow, i am a virgin and don't masturbate so i don't know why it is sore, also when i got a swab from my vagina in the doctors, that hurt too, I'm too embarrassed to ask a medical professional so was wondering if someone can help, thanks!
firstly how old are you hun?
i am 18
Ok is it just the 3 times you have been fingered, twice hurt and once ok
ya thats right
My theory is you wasn't turned on enough there for wasn't lubricated enough the 2 times it hurt and that's why it also hurt when you had the swab at the doctor.
Hi, your hyman probably hasnt broken properly and that could be why it hurts.
I would suggest using some lube and makig sure youre totally relaxed.
You sound totally normal though so I wouldnt worry about it.