So this all started when I was 11, when I found out I only had one kidney, extra tissue built up on my uterus, one non-functioning ovary and a septum in the wall of my vagina. None of this caused me many problems after I had a laparotomy at the age of 11 to remove some of the extra tissue that was causing me abdominal pain.

Except I always did have a bit of a discharge growing up, but was too embarrassed to ever deal with it.

Then, at the age of 20 I dealt with a massive infection in an ovary that kept me in the hospital for 5 days. I was on hardcore antibiotics which then resulted into a yeast infection, which was also dealt with. I felt great for a while, thinking everything was looked after, and I could finally be comfortable with that area of my body and enjoy a normal sex life without embarrassment or discomfort.

But it just seems like everything is going wrong in that area of my body. I'm continuing to have a bit of white discharge, although no tests are showing any kind of infection, and now there are clusters of small bumps around the area of my vulva.

I've never been normal, and I'm getting extremely weary of hating this part of my body. I'm young and engaged, and I fear I will never have a healthy sex life with my future husband. Can you help me?